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Iโm a PA at a tier 1 law firm and currently in the last phase of my pregnancy (due in about 1โ2 months). Based on my doctorโs advice, Iโve been working from home due to certain medical risks.
However, the situation at work has been quite difficult. Despite my condition, Iโm constantly being made to feel redundant by my partner, and there is an expectation to continue handling deliverables with the same intensityโincluding pulling all-nighters. There is also frequent yelling and an insistence on being available virtually 24x7.
This has been extremely distressing, both physically and mentally.
I have tried addressing this internally, but there hasnโt been any meaningful change in behaviour.
I wanted to understand from others in the community:
- a. Is this kind of expectation normal in similar situations?
- b. How have firms generally dealt with maternity-related accommodations?
- Would it make sense to escalate this externally (for instance, to the Bar Council), or are there better ways to handle this?
c. Would really appreciate any perspectives or experiencesโespecially from those who may have gone through something similar.
Thanks in advance.
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Like it there then stay there. Whenever someone outside two feet in separate boats, they drown.
I am a corporate lawyer mainly experience general corporate and banking experience. I have experience of law firms and now working as an inhouse counsel with an india conglomerate.
I am planning to pursue MBA on weekends from a IIM/or any other good college while working. Please give your opinion on it.
Thanks
and if yes then what can one do to set themselves apart?
Some freshers came back from the induction weirded out by her behaviour, as she was not very subtle about it.
Unbothered, she had a series of flings in office across teams; she had married male partners texting her at night.
At one point she hated what were termed as "uncle" clients; she then learnt the game, and now she knows how to feed them.
She knew what she was doing all along. I personally hated watching it, but I definitely had my eyes open to how it was normalised.
Some play the game. You don't want to. You have my respect. I get the weirdness, but you're also not "all" women. Don't be a misandrist.
1. Work timings for A0.
2. Pay Scale
3. Is there any reservation as to hiring people from Bombay over ones from outside Bombay?
I know the firm you are talking about. They take a lot of pride in their cool culture but its toxic af for people who won't participate in such nonsensical shit
Be what you are.Do best in your job.Learn.Repeat.Revise.Then keep switching.Do not make your job your life.People will stare, they may even approach.If you're uncomfortable with those overtures, just tell them plainly.
And as far as husband aspect is concerned, gurl, he'll definitely.he's a man, & that's in his genes.if yku are 'really' concerned, marry a house-husband, & take care of your family's expenses.
Iโm a final-year law student from an tier 2 NLU, about to graduate soon. Even with a decent rank, some publications, and a tier-1 internship under my belt, I havenโt been able to land a job yet. My family is dealing with a lot of debt right now, and Iโve also taken a student loan to finish my studies. A job at this point would really change things for me and help take some pressure off at home.
If any of you know of any openings in law firms, corporate teams, or even litigation chambers where someone like me could actually get a fair chance, Iโd be really grateful if you could refer me or just point me in the right direction. Iโm open to doing an assessment internship where I can be seriously considered for the job.
If nothing works out, Iโll probably have to shift fully towards preparing for government exams. Honestly, this feels like my last real shot at making things work.
NLS seems to be the only option. Any others? Nalsar, Nujs and Nlud seem to have become reduced to corporate law factories.
It didnโt even register as bullying at first, but now that it has I hate seeing these people going towards a happy future. If all this sounds similar to something youโve been doing to others, YOUโRE A BULLY. NOTHING ELSE. Know that youโre horrible human beings. For all your feminist stances, youโre absolute assholes to your juniors and other girls. No matter how much you pretend, youโre not allies and are complicit in making women in your surroundings feel unsafe and inadequate. You are the kind of people who use feminism as a shield to get away with your shitty behaviour because you know no one would call you out. I wish the worst on you.
I'd like to understand, is there genuinely no difference in your mind between:
1. Having to sit down and concentrate for endsem exams immediately after a suicide on the same three-acre campus, with police poking moving around, students breaking down and the entire atmosphere being steeped in grief and shock; and
2. Going ahead with internships scheduled weeks later, with professional and financial consequences attached?
Putting the words "mental health" in quotation marks the way you've done, and your armchair grief-policing and purity testing are nauseating, but I'd like to understand, what exactly according to you is the bar for trauma to opt out of writing an exam? Unless someone's catatonic enough to your liking, they ought to be forced to write exams 4 days after, no?
The picture you paint of us students as some feudal beneficiaries enjoying the fruits of admin corruption is laughable. Maybe it could've occured to you even as you typed this out that we were trying to cope with shock, grief and exhaustion, and accepted said OPTIONAL institutionally provided concession during such an extraordinary tragedy, but alas.
Listen man, whoever you are, our sincere apologies for failing to perform trauma in your aesthetic. We'll ensure that if there's a next time, nobody will attend internships, smile accidentally, leave our rooms or function in any visible capacity unless certified to be sufficiently traumatized by a licensed practitioner. God bless.
There was barely any mentorship by the senior leadership, and they were let to sink or swim on their own for the most part.
While some colleagues were half decent, consider the extremely high attrition rates I wouldn't be surprised if they've also left by now.
I understand the PPO/Assessment anxiety, especially in the final year of law school but don't make this your sole option, do try and look for greener (or atleast saner) pastures.
Atb!
Many of our alumni have publicly shamed the victims for standing up against these people stating that the punishment is disproportionate and to have consideration since itโs their final year. But none of them, absolutely no one, stopped these people when they were bullying others and causing harm to others.
Some of the 3rd years have also conceded to this punishment being excessively harsh. But a lot of us are so happy and proud of this step in the correct direction. Finally some accountability โฎโฎโฎ by the administration! I hope the university also intimates their future employers of this development as well so people know exactly what the consequences of bullying and sexual harassment are (looking at you NUJS).
There is a good deal of hypocrisy among OCI holders. I will grant you that. I have personally come across somebody with a British passport who is a partner at an Indian law firm (who made sure to change her own daughter's passport from Indian to British in the girl's middle school years) tell me, when my ambition to establish myself in legal practice in Britain was still at quite a baby stage, that having anything British on your profile makes the lives of Indians miserable in India and everywhere else in the world (happy to confirm that two British university degrees and a few other British qualifications have not had this unhappy consequence). If that's the case, then the visa free travel should not be worth it, correct?
Also, I don't know, but you seem really privileged and secure in life. Perhaps you are sure that nothing will ever happen to you in your life that will make you want to fundamentally change your circumstances. Or perhaps you are bitter because you have nothing to lose and want to throw up your bile on people who have done you no harm. I don't know what special knowledge or privileges you have, but despite being wealthy, I don't necessarily feel secure enough in any country not to want the possibility of an easy get-out card if I can get hold of it - who knows when I might need it. This stupid comment is a classic demonstration of why I say learn lessons from the Jewish people in the west who have western and Israeli passports. At least that gives them a get-out card from either country if they need it - and after what the world's Jews have suffered, they have every justification to want to have such an option. You never know what'll happen to you so don't have a go at people who are making careful life choices and keeping their eggs in multiple baskets. Also remember that even these life circumstances that give you options also can cause headaches in and of themselves - think of double taxation in regard to UK-US dual citizens. Take me as an example. When finally I do manage to become eligible to give up my Indian passport and take up a British one, one of the factors I will have to consider is the huge problems that having an OCI would cause were I to try joining the British diplomatic service (working in international relations has been one of the things I have wanted to do for a few years now). That is certainly one of the considerations I will take into account when deciding about whether or not to take up an OCI - and if it is of interest to you, it might very well lead to me deciding not to take up one, for now at least.
They usually hire frm nujs/nluj since the partners are alums
Which one to choose, NKR Law Offices or LexFavios or some other firm entirely
Boutique firms in Delhi only, going into my third year
Firm lacks structure
No corp work lately
Not much to learn
Pros
If you wanna start off with 45-50k as a fresher
What are some of the strong projects and energy + M&A teams (teams that do pure projects sections on deals + also do their own deals) that you have come across in the Tier 1 - 3 market?
One of the worst practice area tbh
https://www.ndtv.com/india-news/2026-west-bengal-elections-bengal-exit-polls-bengal-voters-staying-mum-may-not-release-exit-poll-data-today-axis-my-india-founder-11428067
Hmmm...
PS: I have already spoken to you over phone. Just chillax (IK itโs tough). Prepare more for your TC.
A1 - 60k
No review happened. Partners unilaterally take all decisions
The transition from law firms to Big4 marks a significant shift in the kind of work you do. Though you might be working on the same kind of transactions and roles but we are all aware of the cultural shift and the difference in pay. My recent shift has got me into a big dilemma whether it was a right decision to go for a Big4 consultancy from a boutique law firm. Though i might want to come back to law firms, i am only attracted to the kind of pay they give and nothing else about it. Throw some light people!!
One infamously played Kill, Marry, Hook up with the entire team and asked worse questions.
Heck, there are threads in Legally India right now asking people to list handsome men.
Posts like this would have you believe this is a woman-only problem โ it isn't.
Many men would also be quite wary of women in corporate settings.
Predators and cheaters do not come in just one gender.
https://www.hindustantimes.com/trending/gurgaon-couple-earning-rs-36-lpa-refuse-to-have-a-child-can-t-even-afford-a-decent-1bhk-101777439126156.html
https://www.ndtv.com/offbeat/gurugram-couple-earning-rs-36-lakh-go-dink-way-heres-why-11425111
Axis has decided not to release its Bengal figures, because 75% of the sample it interviewed refuse to say who they were voting for (which people are interpreting as a silent BJP wave).
We will know on Monday what happens, but if the BJP wins what will that mean for NUJS? For a start, there will be a new Advocate General and Law Minister. Also, the various TMC leaders abd ministers in the GC/EC will automatically resign, as these are ex officio posts. Iโm also not sure if some of the retired judges will be retained, given their stances. And then there is the question of the VCโฆ
Thoughts? Sure, the exit polls were way off the mark in 2024, but they have also been right many times. Also, the big difference between 2024 and now is the SIR. Lakhs of deletions of Muslim voters (genuine or otherwise).