I'm unmarried single mother
I am unmarried single mother, age 25 from Mumbai. I hav a 11 moths litt baby girl. I had a relationship with a Muslim man 2 year ago, i was in relationship with him for almost 2 years, during that i got pregnant he emotionally touched me for abortion and he succeed. After this i decided ll not keep any physical with him, he always use to do emotional for sex. 1 day he forcely did physical with me again i got pregnant, i told him abt it and he told me to abort baby. but this time i against him, during this i came to knw that he got married 2 moths ago with a jain girl (love marriage) after that he said he dont wanna keep any relation with me, i respected his decided n back out frm his life with 2 months baby… i never contact him, i left my home & deliver baby with d help of my 1 of very gud frnd, after that i came back to home … i told abt this to my parents and i convince them for my litt one, in between my mom told me to marry with my fend (who helped me during pregnancy). even he was ready for me…
I dont no what happen on 25th dec 2012 he called me n frm sum where he came to knw abt his child is with me… frm that day he is continually harassing me like anything whatever hard time i passed in my life alone because of him, he is not interested in that, he says he want his baby back he ll clam for his custody and he says m character less girl, i want money that’s a reason i born this baby. he cheated me badly he has 1 baby boy frm his wife. plz help me, he is very rich and now m not working middle class women. plz suggest me sumthing what i can do i really cant stay without my litt one… i knw i was wrong i kept physical with him before marriage i regrade for that but not for my baby…
thanx
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He cannot force you to give up custody of your child.
You definitely need to go to a good lawyer. There are a lot of social elements in to your case so choose a lawyer who can handle things better and also any NGOs who work for women.
He is also a charachterless guy. He had sex with you outside marriage. He too has no right over the child.So you better keep that child as he already has a child.
No lawyer or NGO will be help you fully. Get in touch with your local RSS shaka and they will teach him a lesson the right way
Hi, I am unmarried expecting mother living in India. I am a well settled IT professional and have made a conscious decision to stay away from legal wedlock. Now I am expecting a baby as I always wanted to have children. Now, when my baby is born, is it legally mandatory for me to give the name of the father in the birth certificate? If I choose to leave it blank, what are the repercussions? I also understand that now Passport is also being given to children of unwed mothers with an affidavit where I can leave the father name blank. But, I want to move to UK for some years. Will I face difficulty in obtaining visa for the child who doesnt have father name in birth certificate or in the passport. What are the supporting documents that I should provide to the consulate like a custody decree from the court to get visa for the child? Please advice me on legalities and options. Thank you in advance!
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You should consult some close friends.
Hi,
I am in a somewhat similar situation and wanted to know what finally happened… please let me know as i need to apply for my son’s passport…
Thank you!
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