respected sir,

good day.

requesting you to spare some of your valuable time and thanking you in anticipation.

my story is as under in brief:

i married in feb.‘11

my wife left me on 5th Dec.‘2011, for no fault of ours. now more than one (1) year has been passed.

chances has she been a emotionally blackmailed by her parent because of certain ego issues with my parent. my parent did ask apology though they are not at fault but my in-laws are not in mood except to break.

in this period, they circulate various type of rumors based on GOEBBELS TRUTH among members of our society to tarnish our image as well to prove the authenticity of the step they have taken.

this sunday [10-2-2013], they come with proposal for a mutual consent divorce. though they don’t open their card yet, they do give slight ink link/idea to be ready for dire consequence if their demand/terms will not be fulfilled,

so, like to know what is the intensity of strength of 498-a, 406, 34 as well DV cases suppose they may file a suit/case to teach a lesson for not accepting their unrealistic terms/demands,

may i file a suit for divorce on desertion ground or which ground is most desirable ?

we are middle class family. in my family

1] grandpa [retired] of 84yrs - , 2] my father [retired] - 61yrs,

3] my mother [housewife] - 55yrs, 4] myself [service] - 32yrs,

5] my younger brother [service] - 30yrs & 6] my youngest brother [student] - 26yrs.

me and my younger brother are only bread winner in family.

Will appreciate your expert suggestion for taking precautionary measure and excuse for giving trouble.

thanks.

gautam.

[ (gkmja[at-the-rate-of]yahoo[dot]com) ]

p.s.: still we don’t want to seperate but personally fear and worry she might not be in a

position to withstand emotional blackmail.