Dear sir,

I am writing this mail after being very depressed. I am male 30, unmarried Indian working as a software engineer in a IT company.

Last night (28th september, 2012), I got a call from unknown number, i picked up the call and said “Hello”… that side there is a female voice and she asked me to “hold down for couple of minute”. I just asked can you please tell me your name first. she again said “I am telling you to hold down, can’t you hold down for a while.”.. Then thinking thats a prank call I disconnected the phone. and drop a message 9text message to that mobile number..)…asking who are you.

After couple of minutes I received message from the same number “I hate people like you who do not have basic manners of talking. Now i am not any more interested in you.”

Then I replied “Ok, I am sorry..But you should learn manner first, while calling someone you can ask him to wait..”

Girl reply ”

” I do not give a damm bullshit to idiots and stupids like you. you expressed interest in my matrimony profile and I thought to talk to you…

I replied ” Okk, I am very sorry. Now you can declined my interest or I’ll decline If I’ll be able to find you. all the best.

Girl reply:

” No need dont show me your arrogance. get lost you fucker..“…and some other words i forget.

I replied :

“What is your problem, why are you showing wrong attitude to me, why you said to me a idiot and stupid. I am not, u r bullshit…kya aap gawaar ho…how someone can bear you, how your family can bear you, offcourse not.

After that…” she started abusing me, my family in Hindi… she used very very cheap words…and start calling me. I was disconnecting her call everytime. and then she keep texting me… threatening me that she will send thousand guys to beat me, to fuck my mom and sister…all was in hindi language…”I only sent her lastly one message, after being so much provoked…in abusing languse and ask her not to text or call me..

she kept calling me. I switched off my phone for 15 mins. Then when I switch on my phone there were 8 missed call alerts. and I again get a call from her…This time I picked. As soon as I picked she started abusing me in hindi, english..she used very cheap language. I was keep saying sorry…as I could’nt abuse a girl.

Now…she threaten me that she is going to file a FIR against me for her physical and mental harassment. She said she got relation with big people in mumbai and she will screw my all happiness. She will send me to JAIL and all. But i never use anything wrong word to her except 1 message…all cherap language she only used. i never called her…she only called me.

I am very tensed, Please advice me. and, unfortunetly, i deleted all the abusive message from her. But i have the call logs in my phone. She is still messaging me that she is going for a FIR…and all. police will catch me from office. I am helpless to argue as she is a girl. I do not know what to do in this case. can you please help me. Many thanks.