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Family issue

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AnonymousLLB 28 Jul 2012, 10:19

I am 22yrs old girl.I got failed in final year.I told my dad to allow me to do job in call centre & complete my graduation.But he is not allowing me.He wants me to live life according to him.He is now forcing me to marry & do nothing else.I tried my level best to convince them,but it didn’t work at all.Everyone at home is against me.Nobody at home wants me to live my life according to my wish.I want to complete my graduation with job.I am feeling to run away or commit suicide.I’m totally disturb mentally.Don’t I have right to decide what I’ve to do & what not for myself?Don’t I have right to live my life on my terms & conditions,according to me?Is there any solution to this?Can’t I take any legal action against this,as I am above 18yrs?

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AnonymousLLB 29 Jul 2012, 16:08

Be Optimistic i would suggest you to continue your studies at any cost so you can graduate,& not marry until then, After some time parents will clam down plead your parents to allow you to continue your study, even if it means to join part time jobs to meed your educational , personal needs Legally parents CANNOT Force you to MARRY you can case against them.

Please do not commit suicide or run away (it could land you up in worse situation especially for women). Have hope in your self be STRONG even if it appears whole world is against you! DO WHAT YOU LOVE, & care for nothing

ONce you have completed graduation & a proper job everything will normalize

I would be visiting this thread post frequently in order to address your reply to this in order to help you come out of your situation.

grrajeshkumar.com 8 Aug 2012, 11:51

Hey… always remember “When the going gets touch, the tough gets going.”

Do NOT lose hope just yet, be firm on your convictions and make them understand your point of view. If they are rigid, try to seek help from close relatives from your mother or father’s side and let them talk to your parents.

The best way to handle these type of situation is give yourself some time, focus on your studies at the moment and try to reach out to confident and close family members for advice.

All the best

Rajesh Kumar

Law Student

AnonymousLLB 23 Aug 2012, 08:24

first option is complete your graduation & take a admission any course as ur choice. after this u can choose a better job for u r career. :cheer:

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