Madras HC: Pre-marital sex equals ‘marriage’, must get ‘divorced’ to ‘marry’ another

According to the Madras high court an unmarried couple of legally marriageable age is considered married once they have pre-marital sex, and the ‘husband’ in such marriage cannot marry someone else without getting a court decree of divorce from the ‘wife’, reports the Hindu.

Gems from justice Karnan’s order:

“[…] if any couple choose to consummate their sexual cravings, then that act becomes a total commitment with adherence to all consequences that may follow, except on certain exceptional considerations… Legal rights applicable to normal wedded couples will also be applicable to couples who have had sexual relationships which are established.”

“It is not disputed that the petitioner has been a spinster before she gave birth and that the respondent was a bachelor before developing sexual relationship with the petitioner. Both of them led their marital life under the same shelter and begot two children. Therefore, the petitioner’s rank has been elevated as the wife’ of the respondent and likewise, the respondent’s rank has been elevated as the husband’ of the petitioner. Therefore, the children born to them are legitimate children and the petitioner is the legitimate wife of the respondent.”

He said that either party to a relationship could approach a family court for a declaration of marital status by supplying documentary proof for a sexual relationship. In this case, the man had officially admitted that the woman was his wife, by signing the ‘live birth report’ of his second child and giving his consent for a Caesarean section for the birth, according to the court. Furthermore, he ordered the ‘husband’ to pay monthly maintenance of Rs 500 to his ‘wife’. [The Hindu]

Update: Firstpost criticises The Hindu report of the judgment and headline (Couples who have premarital sex to be considered ‘married’) as sensationalist, arguing that the judge, despite a number of obiter “incendiary statements”, “is clearly ruling on the issue of domestic partnership, awarding rights to couples who may not legally married but have lived together in every other way as spouses”.

Comments

Mr. Common Sense 18 Jun 2013, 07:31
+15 -1
Clearly, The Judge was not laying down a general principle of law. If you read the statement in the context, it means that whoever has had pre-marital sex and that leading to birth of children would be deemed married. Not everybody whatsoever
MK 18 Jun 2013, 07:31
+4 -2
Wish the learned judge had dedicated his focus to the fact that the wife had been awarded a meagre Rs. 500 per month as maintenance, and enhanced the same. The rest of this judgment is laughable to say the least.
Anon 18 Jun 2013, 08:01
+2 -1
Would appreciate it if you could share the text of the judgment. Would determine the context of the findings.
Guest 18 Jun 2013, 08:12
+4 -0
Against Comment 1... In addition to that, the judge also requires a positive act from a spouse of representing that the man and woman are husband and wife.
Garvit 18 Jun 2013, 08:17
+2 -2
Can you please quote citation of this if its reported.
CoC 18 Jun 2013, 09:28
+1 -0
If I write some nasty comments (which I am eager to), would that amount to contempt?
Headline Culture... 18 Jun 2013, 08:37
+7 -0
"Observation of religious formalities not necessary to constitute valid marriage, says Madras High Court" - Bar and bench headline for their story on same judgment.

Comparing that with the LI headline is pretty much like reading The Hindu vs. reading the Times of India. Throws a lot of light on the culture and style of each of these websites :-)
Legally India is Mumbai Mirror 19 Jun 2013, 07:09
+0 -0
[quote name="Headline Culture..."]"Observation of religious formalities not necessary to constitute valid marriage, says Madras High Court" - Bar and bench headline for their story on same judgment.

Comparing that with the LI headline is pretty much like reading The Hindu vs. reading the Times of India. Throws a lot of light on the culture and style of each of these websites :-)[/quote]

KIAN -- why so quiet?
kianganz 19 Jun 2013, 07:15
+2 -0
Anything in particular I should comment on that hasn't previously already been talked to death? :)

(Hindu headline, ironically, was: "Couples who have premarital sex to be considered ‘married’")
Keep Calm 19 Jun 2013, 09:02
+2 -0
This article in the Hindu was almost as if the ToI guys had hacked in and posted in the Hindu

Kian, should have read the judgment before posting. The firstpost piece appears more accurate, and the "gems" quoted above seem to be, at best, in the nature of obiter dicta. Given that the directly contradict Justic Katju's notorious "keep" judgment, i don't see them forming any sort of law, so lets not panic.

Aside from that, the ratio of the judgment enunciates a sound legal principle that long term civil unions should provide the participants in such unions with the same rights and obligations as that of a married couple. While we can all moan and groan about this being abused by women we sleep with after meeting them at bars, it's pretty clear that such a position of law prevents more abuse than it causes.
Mr. Common Sense 2 18 Jun 2013, 08:50
+2 -0
The judgement was written by a judge who applied his mind. The Hindu's headline was written by an editor who hadn't. Just read the article properly.
Bachelor boy 18 Jun 2013, 09:51
+10 -0
absurd! completely absurd! pagla giya hai.
I am 38. going on 39. Bachelor
But going by the ruling of the Mad HC, I have been married at least a dozen times already :)
Bemused 18 Jun 2013, 13:21
+4 -0
you are guilty of adultery, after the relations were established with the first "unmarried" girl, giving that first "unmarried" but now "married" lady a ground to sue you for divorce. If the relations were with the already "married" girl, then their husbands may seek a divorce from her as well as prosecute you for adultery. Envy your past but not the future.
Hang on 18 Jun 2013, 13:31
+1 -0
It seems "deemed wedding" is on the basis of living under the same roof and begetting children. There was a similar Delhi HC judgement saying live in = wedding.

I don't think you have had a dozen live-ins or a dozen children! Have you?
Dazed and Confused :P 18 Jun 2013, 10:26
+4 -0
Did the Judge say what "documentary proof for a sexual relationship" one needs to supply ??? :P.... and wouldn't that amount to offence of publishing pornography in a way...
Guest 18 Jun 2013, 11:34
+0 -0
[quote name="Dazed and Confused :P"]Did the Judge say what "documentary proof for a sexual relationship" one needs to supply ??? :P.... and wouldn't that amount to offence of publishing pornography in a way...[/quote]
I had the same doubt....
Porn!! 18 Jun 2013, 21:32
+0 -0
First they try to ban porn cos it leads to rapes.. Now what show MMS's in open court??
Double dazed and confused 19 Jun 2013, 10:55
+0 -0
What does documentary evidence of sexual relationship refer to? I don't get it. Could you please elaborate on this.
vassupradha 18 Jun 2013, 10:32
+1 -2
ironically this judgement will be helpful for lovers. they can just have premarital sex and will cite this judgement to their parents and tell, 'we are legally bonded' :P this will lead to trouble only! if pre marital sex itself constitutes marriage then ground for divorce shall also be the same! -_-
Confused Zeus Says . . . 18 Jun 2013, 10:42
+3 -0
Hindu and Christian marriages are sacramental. By this judgment, the act of copulation has been elevated to a sacrament.
Fundamentalist 18 Jun 2013, 11:31
+1 -0
" marriage is to beget as many children as you can" . The Hon'ble Judge has endorsed it . This must be thrown in to Pacific Ocean ASAP .
Lawyer 18 Jun 2013, 11:32
+11 -0
[u][b]Porn videos can now pass of as a wedding video. [/b][/u]
Guest 19 Jun 2013, 12:24
+0 -0
[quote name="Lawyer"][u][b]Porn videos can now pass of as a wedding video. [/b][/u][/quote]
An immature judgement, makes instability of the Hindu Law. . This judgement should be amended without damaging the Hindu law but the judge is in-competent to deliver such social living judgement while drafting/writing. The judge should be reverted from Judge and work as a social worker for a year.
Kavita Jitani 18 Jun 2013, 12:31
+2 -0
I agree with Firstpost's argument that this judgemnet does not say that sexual intercourse is enough to consider the couple as 'husband' and 'wife', but speaks of a domestic partnership between a couple for considerable period of time (consdering the fact that two children arose out of their union and the couple shared a roof).
Awesome 18 Jun 2013, 13:54
+1 -4
dunno what the big fuss is about....

awesome judgment....

gave me an excuse to get a leave:

me: sir i need a leave
boss: what happened, everything ok?
me: ya sir I need to go get a divorce
boss: what?? you're married?
me: sir even I dint know.... apparaently pre marital sex = marriage
boss: what???? really????? in that case wait, even i'll come with you
Lame thread 18 Jun 2013, 14:19
+11 -0
So typical and so predictable. Aping each other without applying your mind. Do any of you really think the judiciary could ever endorse such an absurdity.

Clearly some of your observations are evidence of the fact that you have not read the context in which the statement was made and hence, you are criticizing the judgment based on statements which are clearly riddled with erroneous, out of context, cherry picked statements evidencing irresponsible journalism! And seriously?!!! now a lawyer is going to be judgmental after reading a piece written by a person who may not have the expertise to appreciate a judgment?

If I understood the case correctly, the views of the learned judge was made in connection to the issue of maintenance and whether an unmarried individual could claim maintenance without being legally married. That being the context, the judge analysed the facts to note that, although, not being legally married, the fact that two children were born outside of the wedlock and the fact that the said individual did acknowledge in the birth certificates that he was indeed the father of the children, was evidence enough that the couple were leading the life akin to a married couple although they were not married formally. It is in this context that the judge provides his observation. Maybe, some of the words used by him are not in the correct grammatical usage, but the intent is clear. That a live in partner will also be entitled to the same benefits as that of a wife if they have been cohabiting together...don't understand the cause of the furor and necessary flogging of a well thought out judgement.
Guest 19 Jun 2013, 05:37
+1 -1
This is a non sense law created by MHC........ how can pre martial sex tantamount to a valid marriage where Hindu Marriage Act clearly specifies that Saptpadi is an essential ceremony for Hindu Marriage ( Section 7 of HMA)....stupid logic
hmmm..back 19 Jun 2013, 05:41
+0 -0
http://www.firstpost.com/living/misreading-the-madras-hc-ruling-premarital-sex-is-not-marriage-883429.html
ABC 19 Jun 2013, 09:05
+0 -0
My only question is in these circumstances what documentary proof will anyone produce to corroborate for a sexual relatiobship?
Headline Culture... 19 Jun 2013, 10:06
+0 -0
Errr.....photographs and videos. So......never stop looking over your shoulder (even if it gives you a stiff neck!) when you do it next ;-)

That was just in jest.....I think this is a good judgement!
kianganz 19 Jun 2013, 12:32
+0 -0
Judge has responded, by the way, in a statement:

[quote]not only for the purpose of giving relief to the victim woman, but also to maintain the cultural integrity of India.”

If a bachelor aged 21 years or above and a spinster aged 18 years or above had pre-marital sex with intention to marry and, subsequent to this, the man deserts the woman, the victim woman can approach a civil forum for remedy after producing necessary substantial evidence to grant her social status as wife.”

[/quote]

http://www.thehindu.com/news/national/tamil-nadu/ruling-offers-remedy-for-cheated-women-judge/article4829821.ece?homepage=true

Also, just in, the full text of the judgment:
http://www.legallyindia.com/201306193766/Bar-Bench-Litigation/read-full-madras-high-court-judgment-on-pre-marital-sex-marriage-more
savvy 6 Jul 2013, 12:23
+0 -0
F[b]shocking[/b]