Hi, I'm 22, working in a T1 law firm for almost a year now. Well, I'll cut to the chase. I was bored and ended up using Grindr at work, where I started chatting with a colleague. He has, on numerous occasions, asked me to meet him, but I'm afraid of the possibility that he might turn out to be an old, creepy guy I'm not interested in.

I genuinely like him because he seems to be fun loving guy, but at the same time, I don't want to create a scene if something goes wrong. Help, I don't know what to do next. Should I meet him outside?

Please, LI, don't censor it.

So you started working when you were 21? How the f?

First that girl was 20 in her final year and you here are 22 in your second working year. Are you just some law student exhibiting your fantasy? Also who opens Grindr just for fun when bored? are there so many gays these days and no shame in admitting it?

Just a quick heads-up on these apps – you know the drill. Every so often, people start using them for things beyond work, and it doesn't always lead to smooth sailing. I've heard a few tales where workplace romances veered into unexpected territory and things got a bit messy. Stay on the side of caution to steer clear of any unnecessary complications.