Folks, I really like this girl in my school. We both recently got into NALSAR and as you can judge I haven't known her for long. I just see her on the video every day and upon talking to her she seems really nice and stuff. So, let me take the legallyindia regulars a moment down the memory lane to talk about the first relationships you all had in law school and give me some lessons on what to do and what not to do?
R allow this thread please because legallyindia's atmosphere too gloomy - everybody busy comparing law schools, how corporate jobs suck etc. Lets have a fun thread for a change?
People are not what they project themselves to be. Be very careful, I really liked this girl when I was your age, turned out that she was a sociopath and I found out the hard way.
Dated someone. Turned out to be a vampire. Bit me during a hickey. Now I constantly take a break from my tier 1 job to bite my colleagues in the pantry. Run when you can.
Listen, I hate to break it to you, but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on law.
This is I repeat from what my crush in highschool told me and I quote, "you silly high on hormones fellow, it's not love it's infatuation." I hope that helps.
Bhai, please, for the love of god, focus on your grades and leave this shit. Abhi do mahine hue hain na, chill maaro and read some book. Very small number of relationships in any academic setup, not just law schools, last long.
Don't ask out during online classes - it will be a disaster. And POSH/Sexual Harassment complaints can hit you in the face.
go back to campus (it will open atleast mid 22/23) talk and be friends with her.
During online classes - try to make her a good friend; once in a while compliment her (don't compliment looks now)
If you get FRIENDZONED, you are fucked. It's the worst thing to happen. So don't open out yourself all at once. Never allow her to have Bro feelings towards you.
Read Marx and shitty feminist comics - never show her your sanghi side if you are a right winger. NALSAR students are on the far left. If you ever want to get laid - act like a JNU student.
If she rejects you -
Don't take it personally, or try to kill/harass/bitch about her. Not a good idea. Instead - figure out where it went wrong and propose the next 10 girls.
2. Plan for a casual relationship - incase if you are obsessed with her even after 2 or 3 years - take it seriously.
3. Don't freak out (her) or girls in general by -
A. Asking for sex immediately after you form a relationship - (girls) they require a lot of emotional intimacy. Unlike Guy's who feels any hole is a goal and being horny is a daily incident.
Study some female anatomy and biology - it's slightly complex.
Ask for consent - you are in NALSAR; Consent must not be the standard you use for your school girlfriend - it should be on the higher level.
Read on affirmative consent (Australian Standards)
B. Talk about all creepy - stuff guys think (porn, weird forms of Sex - anal, 69 etc) . Don't do that - keep your hornyness and male genitalia inside.
Don't send dick pics (even if asked) - Most women hate it. She will too.
C. Acting Cringy or over romantic.
Hope you get laid and villagers in Shameerpat can witness some ULLU styled action near the lakes.
Shock the goats near the river with your performance.
Don't listen to the naysayers. Let me tell you a story.
Back in my 2nd year, I fell in love and the very next minute spiralled into an existential crisis. What is love, I wondered? How do I know it's real? What if I feel like giving up mid-way or vice versa? People kept telling me it was a bad idea and I almost believed them. But I believed in myself and shot my shot.
Well it's been 8 years since then and guess what? Each day is an adventure. As I admire the lovely green jacket that makes her look ravishing, I reflect on the multiple times that I was frustrated with trying to understand her and the intent and objective behind her acts. But then I look at my other friends, the same naysayers and I consider myself immensely lucky that at least I don't deal with the level of drama in their lives. My partner is perfect and will always be by my side.
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Bachchey padhney bheja hai. Romancegiri karne nahin. Dont waste our hard earned money. Focus on your studies and get a job. Your worried and financially overstretched parents.
Enjoy your time there .We need not to delve deep into binary nature of it .Whether it is bio or pycho ,real or imaginary , momentary or everlasting. Just know few basic facts. flowers bloom then die ,in the same manners such beautiful emotions will also come to an end as per their cyclic period and thereafter in relationship matters how good you are evolving as human being.These moments have their beauty and enjoy them without questioning their existence or impermanent nature.
I started dating an Associate from my office in my fourth year of law school (1st year of Solicitor's articleship). I have never experienced a love like that and peace it brings to me. It has just improved the quality of my life. He's goofy, intelligent, Hot,
So, let me take the legallyindia regulars a moment down the memory lane to talk about the first relationships you all had in law school and give me some lessons on what to do and what not to do?
R allow this thread please because legallyindia's atmosphere too gloomy - everybody busy comparing law schools, how corporate jobs suck etc. Lets have a fun thread for a change?
- R
Not a rule, but a cautionary tale.
- R
Aaram karo, kuch mazzedaar peaceful shows dekh lo.
- R
- R
Don't ask out during online classes - it will be a disaster. And POSH/Sexual Harassment complaints can hit you in the face.
go back to campus (it will open atleast mid 22/23) talk and be friends with her.
During online classes - try to make her a good friend; once in a while compliment her (don't compliment looks now)
If you get FRIENDZONED, you are fucked. It's the worst thing to happen. So don't open out yourself all at once. Never allow her to have Bro feelings towards you.
Read Marx and shitty feminist comics - never show her your sanghi side if you are a right winger. NALSAR students are on the far left. If you ever want to get laid - act like a JNU student.
If she rejects you -
Don't take it personally, or try to kill/harass/bitch about her. Not a good idea. Instead - figure out where it went wrong and propose the next 10 girls.
2. Plan for a casual relationship - incase if you are obsessed with her even after 2 or 3 years - take it seriously.
3. Don't freak out (her) or girls in general by -
A. Asking for sex immediately after you form a relationship - (girls) they require a lot of emotional intimacy. Unlike Guy's who feels any hole is a goal and being horny is a daily incident.
Study some female anatomy and biology - it's slightly complex.
Ask for consent - you are in NALSAR; Consent must not be the standard you use for your school girlfriend - it should be on the higher level.
Read on affirmative consent (Australian Standards)
B. Talk about all creepy - stuff guys think (porn, weird forms of Sex - anal, 69 etc) . Don't do that - keep your hornyness and male genitalia inside.
Don't send dick pics (even if asked) - Most women hate it. She will too.
C. Acting Cringy or over romantic.
Hope you get laid and villagers in Shameerpat can witness some ULLU styled action near the lakes.
Shock the goats near the river with your performance.
What logic is that?
Back in my 2nd year, I fell in love and the very next minute spiralled into an existential crisis. What is love, I wondered? How do I know it's real? What if I feel like giving up mid-way or vice versa? People kept telling me it was a bad idea and I almost believed them. But I believed in myself and shot my shot.
Well it's been 8 years since then and guess what? Each day is an adventure. As I admire the lovely green jacket that makes her look ravishing, I reflect on the multiple times that I was frustrated with trying to understand her and the intent and objective behind her acts. But then I look at my other friends, the same naysayers and I consider myself immensely lucky that at least I don't deal with the level of drama in their lives. My partner is perfect and will always be by my side.
I love you Taxmann's Foreign Exchange Management (FEMA) Manual (Set of 2 Vols.) – Compendium of Amended, Updated & Annotated text of FEMA, Foreign Contributions, Prevention of Money Laundering & FDI.
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Your worried and financially overstretched parents.