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Paradox
If she has a habit of lying and being diplomatic when she has to take a stand you should probably evaluate your decision to be friends with her.
People who are sweet in front of your face and talk behind your back are the most pathetic humans because they don't have a spine of their own.
I really regret that I did not know about these things during my period at law school. Would have helped me to be clear about my career choices and expectations in life.
Law as a profession attracts toxicity from the day you start preparing for law entrance exams imho.
I don’t want to cut her off but please suggest how do I keep myself detached from lying butches like her
The real friend(s) will be the ones who will criticise you and try to correct your ways - not in public but in a personal space. They will be the ones who will be brutally honest with you. They will be happy with your success, but also ready to correct your ways if possible. Secondly, never have too many expectations of your friends. This EXPECTATION destroys a lot of friendships and relationships. Always have the bare minimum expectations, and you will see the world to be a better place to live. Third - this is my personal take - always make friends with whom your career goals don't align. This will save you from future heartbreaks and jealousy. You guys won't be competing with each other. That should be your end goal.
At last, enjoy life a bit. heartbreaks, betrayal, and jealousy are part of life. They teach you whom to trust and whom to love and from whom you should always maintain a safe distance. Learn from the mistakes. Don't frown upon them.
Happy adulting, Kid!!!