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Now, if we approach towards the receiving enormous internship/job applications that only indicates difference in supply and demand of legal work and jobs, which firm/ chambers are exploiting. Gone are times where people accede to toxic work culture, peanuts pay, no real work etc
Of course you love yourself, as does every narcissist. Good for your family too, if you have one that is. And no, we don't want your 'priceless' advice for which we wouldn't shell a penny. Perhaps if you had learnt to refrain from offering your unsolicited advice to every stranger you come across, people might have thought better of you.
the post straight up stating "throw WLB out for ten years" "available at all times" is what is scary.
i hope things change but at the same time with the constant growing population of india, it is bleak even if the younger generations stands up for it as hard as they can.
Get off your high horses assuming you're delivering top notch work and need to be treated well. Because - spoiler alert. It ain't true.
Hence, your assumption that the rest of your generation is βwith youβ is unfounded. In fact, your buddies must be telling you βya bro, screw the overlordsβ, but in reality, they will be working like beasts and ensuring they secure their future. Donβt get left behind beta. With your attitude, you just might. All the best.
My problem with your post is that you assume that someone saying that hard work is necessary equates to toxicity. It does not.
There are many of us 'oldies' who have worked really hard for 20+ years, and this has involved many instances of cancelled plans at the last minute, missing out on parties and birthdays and other fun events, sometimes letting down our loved ones, seeing acquaintances drift away, bouts of anxiety and depressive behaviour, and many other 'sacrifices'. We are also very aware that we would not have been able to get to where we are now without this hard work. In many fields (including law), if you want to be successful professionally, this will be the price.
You can choose that this is not what you want, that you want to prioritize personal time, and that is ok.
Do also be aware that, by the time people turn 35 or 40, professional achievements (and consequently, financial position and ability to provide for the family, send the kids to good schools, go on family holidays, have a nice house) tend to mean more to many people than having attended a few additional concerts or seen many movies or hung out with buddies. It's just that this occurs much later, and right now you will not be able to visualise this stage of your life. Again, this is just a perspective and the ultimate decision on how you want to work and live your life is yours. Just stop thinking that hard work is toxic.
First, try to consolidate your thoughts on what you want? Money or fight against purpoted toxicity and slavery.
When litigating, one has the privilege to act upon their will. You needn't virtue signal someone to make them understand how the profession works. They do them, and they are good enough to look after them, which is part of the reason why they are litigating in the first place. But older people like you who are as acquainted with exploiting free labour can't gulp the fact that people can be doing well in life while not dragging their ass at all times like you did. It isn't advice that you offer, it's jealousy that you inflict.
Leave our generation alone, we are sufficient to fend for ourselves. Its only your insecuirty of losing your hold over underpaid labour that triggers you and forces you to argue with us. Please don't waste your time doing it on an anonymous platform, i am sure your client must be getting disappointed since you aren't picking up their call and playing a keyboard warrior.
- it was drafted by a lawyer who is THE GO TO AOR for almost every high stake matter @ the SC;
- it was exceptionally well drafted! - did no one notice the immaculate English on display (screams that only meritocracy wins at Karanjawala & New Delhi);
- it is only those who align with THAT who stand a chance of getting her support in return, ie. a counsel brief for arguing any of her matters;
- don't miss this part - if you miss her call just because of it being a weekend, sheβll move on to someone else. I say - Fair enough!
This urgency in the profession can't be changed. It is the need of the client who is stuck in a problem.
You think it's toxicity. It isn't. Its your mindset. If you dont understand what litigation is, better leave it.
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