Again I don't think you don't anything asides your uncle's and your clinic/office Wale bhaiya so go do a social check first . Neither we live in the 90s nor we are talking about any right, we are talking about OBLIGATIONS and merits/demerits of the same.
1. Even girls want to look after their parents okay, it's not an exclusive right for sons?
2. Tutions is not just for general studies but NEET and JEE coaching. Parents only allow their sons the same in smaller towns. Girls are asked to pursue smaller vocations. And then the sons will rant that girls have it easy because they are doing smaller jobs and not sent for entrance coaching.
3. No, I dont know which ultra feminist family you are choosing for your argument, if there is extra money they help their sons with the clinics/ property/ offices in their business. Ladki toh shaadi karegi na.
4. All my uncles are in the US and have detached from their parents and living with their wives abroad and barely even call. This is the case most of the times.
It;s their money they will spend it however thye like. If they are doing discrimination from boy and girl then u should speak coz it's not 90s anyomre>
hi, while the OP did say utter bs, this argument on the challenging part is true. Knowing some basic compliance which can be googled is not "challenging", coding for software is definitely
CLAT vs CAT,or JEE vs CLAT which is more challenging? there you go. I'm comparing cream vs cream, not average guys.
Also, I never meant menial sales or marketing jobs, I was talking about hardcore finance and strategy roles that require high-caliber reasoning and mental aptitude, which sadly most MBA grads don't get into. Same goes for Tech jobs too since Coding>back-end support.
Brother, leave law. Sincerely, a fellow bro who is smart and hard-working. I cracked a good college for MBA. Minting money now. Just so you know, the law background boosted my profile with diversity points. Never thought a male candidate could get those. I'm killing it now in terms of money and lifestyle. Go back to your books. Study. Retake your maths lessons since you've lost touch and are rusty now. Study logic if it is not your strong suit. Get out of this hell hole of a profession. No one is coming to save you. But I promise you can make it out of law. Leave, and you'll live a richer life. Run. You don't have to suffer.
"Law is not technically challenging"..are you (i.e. OP) nuts? You think all brain lies with tech and MBA people?? Well I am in-house in a tech company and daily interact with engineers and MBA some of them don't even know that an unrelated company not signing the contract cannot be subjected to its terms (happened yesterday) and forget investment, strategy, taxation and negotiations. Some of them are bright but majority is quite average. Lawyering is a difficult and vey technical job to do and I must say requires high brain. Sometimes my team people envy the MBA marketing team who proposes a couple of nice ideas on marketing on a slide and are gone for Friday happy hours. I am not saying there work is not challenging, but like you are dissing at lawyers, similarly there are lot of lawyers in my team who diss on MBA folks. Again I am not saying dissing anyone is right, it is wrong, but I also refuse to believe anyone like you who diss on lawyers.
Ha aur agar pati se alag ho gayi to bhi bhai ko hi palna hai behen our us ke baccho ko, jab ki alimony aur maintenance ke paise bhi ate hai behen k pas, jo safe rakha jata hai behen k 'future' k liye.
Even in tier 1, it happens and only in few cases, the kids live separately in same city. Not counting the cases where kids live in different city due to jobs or education.
I'm not wishing someone to do or say anything, I'm just putting forward the hard realities and how unfair life is for some people. For the wealthy, yes you are comfy, irrespective of your gender, but as you slip further down the social and economic hierarchy, things become disproportionally harsh for some more than others.
It's already ruined by the new WOKE-species of men and women alike who put more weight on their words than actions. Show-of and flashy lifestyle has become the norm here. And who are you to say LI has to justify anything, it's the truth and not anyone's loss you're living under a rock. And yes, coming to the point that don't marry women - honey thankfully in this country not every girl has fallen prey to the rampant virus of feminism, wokesim, and blatant gender -pushing, they actually believe in hard work and are happy to accept a partner who is not extremely well-off, but a good person and has a decent earning. So don;t count yourself in the 1% noble steed of women who are not corrupted by modern society. I am happy to lice with a mediocre girl who values their loved ones more than material things rather than gold-digging over ambitionists.
LI, the new domain of incels and misogynists. Does any mod have the guts to come out and justify their decision to publish this thread to begin with? To all the people who are loving these rants, just don't get married to women, nobody is making you do so on gunpoint. Run your household by yourself and hired help. If you think that women have it easier in law, despite all the available data to the contrary, then feel free to leave law altogether and leave it to the women. Simple!
It happen in villages dude, in cities girls find their partner on their own or happily settle for a rich husband, who might turn abusive later, but it was their choice in the first place noone forced them .
they are forced to get married off what r u saying and parents always support the sons and even give them business positions, which world are you living in?
Yeah, everything you're saying is true (and well articulated) but you'll have to prepare yourself to be insulted by the woke bandwagon. Women do have the comfort of dropping out of the litigation rat race and marrying rich, a luxury that men don't have. The long wait in litigation and low pays damage many lives and it's always men that suffer. Plus, parents are usually willing to support their daughters more than their sons. Daughters are better at emotional blackmail and parents usually melt when she does it.
On one hand you want "traditional" women and rant that women are entering the corporate space because your lazy ass doesn't wanna study but boose and drugs, but also shame the same women who choose to be stay at home because they find it "tough". Bro the toughest shit to do is repeated housework tasks everyday, just ask any mother. I wud rather do dd and await random client calls than that.
Okay reality check ! If following a literal sex trafficked in 2024 and firming your opinions is what you chose to do, I believe there is some issue with your upbringing (aka mommy issues). Please see a therapist before interacting with any other woman in your life.
1. Corp offices simply hire based on the batch rank. Girls naturally focus on studies and ace exams and therefore clear placements.
2. While engineering and finance was largely seen as a bros space until a few years ago, many IIM and IIT grads with foreign placements have been women, please follow news articles. I think you are interacting with people from 5 years ago where yes, women were actively discouraged from entering this space.
3. Women don't usually litigate because their parents including mine literally threaten them with arranged marriage, which means you loose your career and life at the hands of literal strangers. There's no money in there and misogyny is very high in the courts as well. Young women are not encouraged to take on cases because clients see them as too incompetent.
Finally , if you think that law is not for the "bright minds", please do everyone a favour and LEAVE.
Any comment that an educated and rational individual will have to make at you after reading that rant of yours will not pass moderation. Your rant is full of false statements, unsubstantiated assertions, logical gymnastics, plain mistakes and displays of incel bias.
Phew! I'm back with another outlandish and outrageous observation, or rather say awakening. Law today is becoming female-centric profession. Just look at the CLAT takers and people enorlling in law colleges today. the Male -female ratio is almost 70-30. Plus , you would not see a lot of men going into corporate, a vast majority of them either litigate or prepare for govt exams.he corporate space is booming with female presence, and preference as well.
It goes to displays the general characteristics of the study and profession which paints a very secondary picture of the domain. Almost all the hardworking and bright minds are, no offence, in technology, management, govt service and finance. It can be deduced that law is not that technically challenging an area and hence the crowd here is rightfully so too- laid-back and uninitiated. Since the profession is very nepotistic, unlike other fields, only the privileged ones reach significance, rest all deviate from the practice or profession of law or leave out at mediocrity .
This part plays in favour of women, since they can leave the profession and opt for hypergamy at point, citing the reason that the space is very "tough" for them. Men, on the other hand usually have no choice since they have to stand out in the society, so they slog nevertheless and try to eke out anything they can form the profession. Any comments or opinions would be highly appreciated.
2. Tutions is not just for general studies but NEET and JEE coaching. Parents only allow their sons the same in smaller towns. Girls are asked to pursue smaller vocations. And then the sons will rant that girls have it easy because they are doing smaller jobs and not sent for entrance coaching.
3. No, I dont know which ultra feminist family you are choosing for your argument, if there is extra money they help their sons with the clinics/ property/ offices in their business. Ladki toh shaadi karegi na.
4. All my uncles are in the US and have detached from their parents and living with their wives abroad and barely even call. This is the case most of the times.
Hamesh Bete ko bolte hai ki behn ki shadi karwni h to mhnt kro
Beti agar pahadi me achi na ho tabbhi use mehnat krne k lie force nhi krte
Beti ko party karne, kapde khareedne k lie alag se paise dete hai
Beti job na bhi kare, tabbhi koi force nhi krte
Beti ko rishtedaron k ghar rukwadete hain internship/college k time pr coz "security matters"
Beti ko hamesh apnse se uapr status wale ladke se hi shadi ya date krne k lie permission dete hain
Beti agar thoda bht bhi kamati ho tabbhi use apne aap se paise dete hain
WIERD
Same goes for clg
Ladke pdahai me acche nhi hote islie tutions me dalte h
same as above
agar maa baap pe zyda paise ho to ladki ko donation se krwate hain
Abroad jane dtee h fir kuch saal me waps bula lete hain family sambahle k lie
Equally WIERD
Bete ko mehenge colleges mein dalte hai
Bete ko additional tuitions lagwate hai
Beta bina padhe drop le, phir aur mehenga tuition lagwate hai
Bete ko donation deke Masters karwate hai
Abroad janeka first priority bete ko dete hai
... WEIRD
Also, I never meant menial sales or marketing jobs, I was talking about hardcore finance and strategy roles that require high-caliber reasoning and mental aptitude, which sadly most MBA grads don't get into. Same goes for Tech jobs too since Coding>back-end support.
1. Corp offices simply hire based on the batch rank. Girls naturally focus on studies and ace exams and therefore clear placements.
2. While engineering and finance was largely seen as a bros space until a few years ago, many IIM and IIT grads with foreign placements have been women, please follow news articles. I think you are interacting with people from 5 years ago where yes, women were actively discouraged from entering this space.
3. Women don't usually litigate because their parents including mine literally threaten them with arranged marriage, which means you loose your career and life at the hands of literal strangers. There's no money in there and misogyny is very high in the courts as well. Young women are not encouraged to take on cases because clients see them as too incompetent.
Finally , if you think that law is not for the "bright minds", please do everyone a favour and LEAVE.
It goes to displays the general characteristics of the study and profession which paints a very secondary picture of the domain. Almost all the hardworking and bright minds are, no offence, in technology, management, govt service and finance. It can be deduced that law is not that technically challenging an area and hence the crowd here is rightfully so too- laid-back and uninitiated. Since the profession is very nepotistic, unlike other fields, only the privileged ones reach significance, rest all deviate from the practice or profession of law or leave out at mediocrity .
This part plays in favour of women, since they can leave the profession and opt for hypergamy at point, citing the reason that the space is very "tough" for them. Men, on the other hand usually have no choice since they have to stand out in the society, so they slog nevertheless and try to eke out anything they can form the profession. Any comments or opinions would be highly appreciated.