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Second... Why imply that I don't respect consent? I do. Entire purpose of the post was to see how acceptable or desirable other people think it is. I care.
Also wow. Saying I need a psychologist judging only by a major Indian/South Asian fetish is unreal.
Idea was asking at anonymous fora so people can speak free from stigma/shame/embarrassment.
> Are looking to validate it with a separate whole thread
Agenda wasn't validation. Just took my shot at asking for honest(!) stories/experiences from guys and girls(!) because talking on this non-anonymously is obvious dead-end. No-one will be open/vulnerable enough to admit it IRL.
If what you say is real, I am concerned for you and the women around you. Perhaps might be time to look at talking to a non-judgmental psychologist about this.
Grabs shawl and covers up
• Someone said the other day that 2028 batch is obsessed with the most trivial stuff. The examples are listed below
A) Being obsessed with their drop years (when drops don’t even begin to matter in the first place). I have never seen anyone being so nervous about their drops when people have done it millions of times especially in tier-1. The result was a separate thread seeking validation because of some random troll who was just joking. Smhhhh
B) Complaining about how workload has increased at colleges when infact it has decreased compared to previous years. The result was again a separate thread.
C) Internships , internships and internships - Arey yaar. The result is that they have started interning in the stupidest of places where again they will be scrapped off from the CV on first look.
D) And now - this. While it’s perfectly okay to have a fetish , I don’t understand why will you want to “know how the scene is” when people will choose not to speak about it? If it’s a genuine part of your sexuality - good. Are looking to validate it with a separate whole thread?
This is genuinely not trollish
I recently discovered a strong armpit fetish. Looking at girls in sleeveless turns me on. I have to consciously avoid looking when their arms are raised. Like a 'normal' dude would look away from the bosom or posterior or a 'normal' girl from abs. There's also olfactory and gustatory urges.
I can try to repress it in relationships. Should I? It's not healthy. I don't want to resort to pornography as a poor substitute.
So I'm curious how prevalent this is among law students and firms:
1. Girls, (a) do you know about it? (b) Have you dated anyone like me? (c) Can you accept it?
2. Guys, was this something your girl(s) stigmatized/dismissed? Or accepted?
Looking to hear stories about relationships like this.
P.S. Yes, I know LI is a serious forum. And I'm sorry for making you uncomfortable. But this is a genuine part of my sexuality. I can't undo it. Like how depressed people can't just 'stop being sad'. I will be joining a T1 NLU in a few months. I want to know how the scene will be.