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There are some really relevant questions this case brings out:
- How can dating apps be made safer? (these two met on a dating app)
- Why does nobody report abusive guys to the cops?
- Why are educated girls falling for abusive guys and staying in these toxic relationships?
- Does our media wrongly glamorise toxic men?
Instead you have a society where it is not safe for women to date or to be with people they choose . It’s definitely not safe to break up or dump a dude. It’s extremely hard to become financially independent. And even when you do- everyone expects you to be married or with someone . The pressure is insane. So many women I know are staying with men they do not love because of that pressure. And these men also don’t have the self respect to let her go. Make it okay for her to be single, make it okay for her to be divorced. Then she might actually get away. On top of this so many women believe they just have to put up with violence if they are with a man . That it’s a form of affection. That they don’t deserve better and that they were put on this earth to be of service to someone else, be someone else’s therapy, be someone else’s punching bag. Not to fulfil their own dreams or chase their own ambition. What toxic nonsense is that ?
I did face an incident once regarding this, I mean I've lost all hopes of dating men altogether