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Whether you are closeted, open or experimenting. How's gay dating/hookup scenario in your campus and city - ? Is grindr/other gay apps useful, safe?
It sucks here in Lucknow - most are on the apps for a casual game. Hard to get a decent person.
Dating is almost impossible as most on the apps are interested for a quick hookup.
Kian, Please don't censor this!
If you can allow of raunchy straight dating and hookup threads - you can allow this too.
I can understand where the OP is coming from. A major part of college is supposed to be the dalliances people have. And a college dalliance, while in no way the peak, is really special in its own way (I mean, from what I could tell on the outside I didn't have one). Living on the same campus, the constant accessibility, it's exciting in its own way. Especially for young kids just out of school. It's a part of the essential college experience for straight people. so they don't give it a second thought I guess.
OP, the situation is kind of underwhelming. I would really, REALLY strongly advise to stay away from Grindr in general. Just a good tip for life. Especially in India. Especially in anything other than a tony area in a T1 city.
Tinder/Bumble should be okay I guess, but don't be too hopeful. From my experience, what I can tell you is that law schools attract a generally okay crowd with a relatively woke bent, so you won't have too much trouble if you do get into a relationship or something. But you will have to be extra careful. (The boys' hostel can be a special tenth circle of hell, but, hopefully, most of them will be just harmless/indifferent).
To answer your main question: gay culture and openly gay folks are unfortunately mostly restricted to T1 cities. I get it, when you're shooting in the dark. But, well, it is what it is.
Also, if you're on a dating app of any kind, please be careful, always talk to the person well before meeting. Meet in a place that is not secluded. And inform someone you trust. There has been a sharp rise in cases where gay men get extorted on these apps.
Take care!
Only wealthy ones from ICSE can be gay?
This is what the second last para was supposed to be, idk how I deleted half a line lol
Apart from that, Jindal can come off both as homophobic and supporting the community. I am bi myself, and I have been out to a few very close friends, and they seem to support me. While others (more particularly in the male friend group) would not support you that much.
Most law firms and seniors are conservative and I have noticed real discrimination when it came to recruitments as a result of idle gossip.
"are you sexually repressed because you're queer or are you queer because you're sexually repressed"
But then Bangalore has a big community so there is space outside The college as well.