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Somewhere between all those conversations, I fell in love with you.
We talked about our future, made little plans, imagined what it would be like when we finally meet, what we would do, where we would go, and all those small things that maybe looked silly to someone else but meant so much to me. I started seeing you in my future without even trying.
Then you told me that you needed some space because of your personal issues. I understood. I didn't want to pressure you, so I gave you the space you asked for. I waited, thinking that whenever you were ready, you would come back and talk to me.
But then the messages stopped.
And honestly, I don't know what happened.
It feels like I got ghosted without even getting a goodbye. And that's the part that hurts the most, because I know you. Or atleast I thought I knew you. This doesn't feel like the person I used to talk to, the person who shared everything with me.
Maybe something changed. Maybe your feelings changed. Maybe you met someone else. Maybe you just don't want this anymore. I don't know.
But ▮▮▮, if that's what you want, please just tell me.
If you want to end this and move on, I promise I won't fight you. I won't blame you. I won't force you to stay. Just be honest with me. Give me a reason, say goodbye properly, and I will respect your decision, even if it breaks my heart.
But please don't leave me wondering what happened.
Because I am still here. I still love you. I still think about you, about us, about all those things we planned and all those conversations we had.
I don't know if you will ever come back, but a part of me is still hoping that you will.
So if there is even a little part of you that wants to talk to me again, please come back and talk to me.
And if you don't want me anymore, just tell me.
I can accept the truth.
What I can't accept is silence from someone who once meant so much to me.
I miss you, ▮▮▮.
And more than anything, I just want to hear from you again. ❤️