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I force my juniors to stay in office, even if there is no work because one must not leave before their seniors.
I will sit on an email that was sent to me on Monday, and will only allocate it to my junior on a Friday night, with a due date of Saturday morning (even if it is only due on the coming Wednesday). Thereafter, I will sit on the work product only on Tuesday evening and then chide my junior for not following instructions that I never gave. Instructions are something I never give; or if I give, they are too vague, something which an A0 won't have any context on. I will also tell my junior that "this was not done" when the junior has not received any instructions to that effect!
On Wednesday mid day the work would be due, so the entire night of the junior will be eaten by me and of course, I will create chaos, confusion and anxiety on Wednesday morning. I will make my junior take prints for something (that should have otherwise been done by the office boy). I will then go on to hog credit for the entire work in front of the partner. Ofcourse, if there is a fuck up, that would be blamed on the junior.
I will often shout at the junior for no other reason than to show that I am very "senior" (all this while nobody outside the firm knows me).
I am an SA/PA at a law firm. I am very senior.
In those moments, it is important not to forget how the behavior made you feel.
As you move forward and your role and influence grow, make a conscious effort not to repeat the same behavior. Try to adopt a change which addresses the behavior that bothered you. Every change can make a real difference to real people, even if it's not a large number of people.
Becoming senior should not be about carrying forward the frustrations of your early years and then taking revenge on unsuspecting people to placate the younger self. It should be an opportunity to make things a little easier for others, even though you will definitely not directly benefit from the change in behavior or culture.
Over time, you will learn, grow, and improve. The way you treat people should grow with you.
Doing this will not make you known, or popular, but will help you sleep better at night.