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Sounds like a you problem and not a they problem. Unlikely 4 different organisations with diverse people can all be "toxic". Perhaps you just can't work hard. Nothing wrong with that. Many cannot.
Every firm feels toxic only. I have worked with 4 firms and found things very unbearable.
TL may be most toxic law firm but at least they give 21 days wedding leave (including weekends). join TL, get married and leave
Just invite the partners with a nice gift package. Dont expect to get more than 15-20 days. Earlier you inform the better so that the team can plan ahead especially if it is conflicting with their holiday plans towards end of the year. Typically most firms are chill about it.