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I feel my work takes up a lot of time, and I feel I need atleast 5 more years to make a name for myself. But that would mean hitting my mid-30s.
I am not into having a kid or a family. A marriage is not a problem. But I don't want a spouse who pushes for kids. How do I deal with this feeling ?
What about you guys ? People who married or single? Are you preparing for a family life ? How do you handle career over personal life ?