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Even if you were to meet a family oriented, make-your-own-bread milk-your-own-cow type of homesteader usually portrayed on "tradwife" spaces- she likely wouldnt be interested in someone who plans to slave for corporate overlords, not take an active role in raising children or who wouldnt know how to fix a light bulb let alone build her a house. Indian men want the women to be "family oriented" instead of career oriented, but they themselves arent similarly family oriented at all. What they want is a bangmaid, not a marriage.
What you mean is that you are incapable of being a good husband and want to marry someone who is poorer and less financially stable than you are in hopes that she will put up with your bad behaviour all her life. She might. She might also find out that its not worth it. Just be honest though- dont use euphemisms to disguise your own shortcomings.