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On a philosophical sense, the Bhagavad Gita answers it even better.
Chapter 2, Verse 47 - कर्मण्येवाधिकारस्ते मा फलेषु कदाचन | मा कर्मफलहेतुर्भूर्मा ते सङ्गोऽस्त्वकर्मणि ||
The verse gives four instructions regarding the science of work: 1) Do your duty, but do not concern yourself with the results. 2) The fruits of your actions are not for your enjoyment. 3) Even while working, give up the pride of doership. 4) Do not be attached to inaction. We have the right to do our duty, but the results are not dependent only upon our efforts. A number of factors come into play in determining the results—our efforts, destiny (our past karmas), the will of God, the efforts of others, the cumulative karmas of the people involved, the place and situation (a matter of luck), etc. Now if we become anxious for results, we will experience anxiety whenever they are not according to our expectations. So Shree Krishna advises Arjun to give up concern for the results and instead focus solely on doing a good job. The fact is that when we are unconcerned about the results, we are able to focus entirely on our efforts, and the result is even better than before.
Chapter 5, Verse 20 - न प्रहृष्येत्प्रियं प्राप्य नोद्विजेत्प्राप्य चाप्रियम् | स्थिरबुद्धिरसम्मूढो ब्रह्मविद् ब्रह्मणि स्थित: ||
The section of this verse—neither rejoicing in pleasure, nor lamenting the unpleasant—is the highest ideal of the Vipassanā tradition of meditation in Buddhism. Have a firm understanding of divine knowledge and do not be hampered by delusion, neither rejoice in getting something pleasant nor grieve on experiencing the unpleasant (Basically Stoicism).
It's imperative to understand, nothing depends on luck, everything depends on work because even luck has to work. Focus on the variables, focus on the things that can actually make difference, alienate yourself from the wants, the jealousy, the comparison. True devotion to your work will bring results in a manner you can't even fathom. If you want to understand a more spiritual aspect of this process and actually get rid of this process; I would suggest you to read books on Advaitism, Buddhism and The Bhagavad Gita but if you don't intend to decipher those philosophies, all I have to say is follow Roman's words. It worked well for him, I really hope it does for you as well.
However, we need to be open to opportunities, aware of them when they arise and competent enough to act on them - all of which requires focus and hard work which, no doubt, Ronaldo and Zuckerberg have exhibited as well. Hard work and focus don’t guarantee success given the importance of luck, but neither does luck alone.