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I would marry the girl who will try to support me & help me in completing my dream and Vice - Versa . I want to run a successful business & want to be a businessman & travel this world . So any girl who is interested in business, traveling and exploring new things .
She should be loyal plus caring plus outgoing plus extrovert because I am introvert thats why .
Ek aisi Wife meih bhi deserve karta hu .
Kyu Bhai log ??
😅😕😔Waiting & looking forward for my future wife yaaar.
And no not all rich men are willing to change a broke girls life to the better, it's mostly for the worse. Been there done that.
so according to you a woman should not be very ambitious or smart bcz it will shorten their dating pool and when she choose to marry her husband would cheat her in her absence and their child will hate their mother . if you have this type of thinking then please whenever you marry dont marry a working woman choose someone who doesnt want to work after marriage or be a househusband .
You don't want to date a "smart man who has a large dating pool'. You only have to get one who loves you and is equally motivated and ambitious and has empathy for you and in people in general.
I've 55 L in mutual fund, 3 BHK on loan, a Hyundai
Mathematics and a law degree
Algo trading in market, additional income 1L per month
Are you ready?
Had us in the first half, NGL.
Highly Successful Women (Financially, Career Wise) and Unsuccessful Men have a raw deal when it comes to relationships.
If you look at law firms, there are more unmarried, childless lady partners than male partners.
Mostly you won't get a man of your expectations and likely you will end up in a divorce.
Most female law firm lawyers are desperate to get an IIT IIM dude or atleast a corporate lawyer. ▮▮▮
Also your husband will most likely cheat on you (statistically) maybe with his secretary or worse your house help.
A man's loyalty is tested when he has everything, a women's loyalty is tested when her man has nothing.
Your kids would also ▮▮▮ be more attached to the nanny who raises them. You will be a largely absent mother. They won't ▮▮▮ your husband because of patriarchal norms where men can do bare minimum and still be father of the year while you will be a bad mother.
Smart men have a large market in dating pool. Such a market doesn't exist for smart women just for being 'smart'.
So step out of your made up hypergamous fantasy and try to survive your first year as an associate. Most associates quit due to insane hours and work pressure.
Does this mean we'll be sorted by age of 45-50? Can we retire then?
Also, I don't want to compromise on my job but I understand I'll have to stay at home during labour.
I want help on the following factors:
1. Retirement age
2. How to address concerns in lives of female professionals (pregnancy, child care, household responsibilities, etc)