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If you feel strongly about her, change teams / firm first. This is coming from a person who married another person from the same firm (very very different teams). I have also dated people in the same team many a moons ago, and it never ends well. Everything becomes too complicated.
Are you in India or abroad?
2. Elsa Pataky - Chris Hemsworth = 7 years3. Katrina - Vicky = 5 years
No gives a shit and on the contrary everyone stans couple nos 2 and 3. Only jobless housing society aunties and uncles have a problem with such relationships (and they're younger equivalents in law firms: aunties-in-waiting/uncles-in-waiting). Do you really want to give up the person you like because of these toxic aunties and junior aunties/uncles-in waiting? What if this girl is the love of your life?
So just go for it... but do so politely, nicely, slowly and subtly. Invite her to a movie first. Many of the Oscar movies are showing in town, so that's a good excuse.
A rejection can be disastrous for both your mental and career health.
Question is are you a desirable partner
Anyway, if you are asking this question here I bet you are an introvert and can’t ask out a girl because you are mortified of rejection
In this game the more people you ask out and more you are unafraid of rejection higher is your chance for success
Ask out a 100 girls, get rejected a hundred times, get over your fear of rejection
That will do you a world of good I say
I have even seen Pa's asking out fresher AO's and even ending up dating and marrying them.
Generally women prefer older men or of same age and never younger guys as they expect more maturity, income in men.