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What’s most debilitating is the societal norms haven’t changed a bit. Boys are still considered to have a stable job, good house, and other amenities to provide to the prospective partner. While in most cases girls do not have this long-term insecurity, it’s something that keeps u awake at night. No matter how insignificant you may be, you have to overperform to gain acceptance in life. Just me or anyone else facing this dilemma too? And if someone is, what can be a good way to navigate this wilderness?