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Bumble should give you decent options. Go out on dates and see if you can vibe with the person.
Even if it doesnot work out romantically, you still can make a good friend or more out of that person
https://www.livemint.com/news/business-of-life/loneliness-in-the-city-1541394566948.html
You are mentally sprinting and probably dealing with 100 issues at your law firm job, so when you come back home, you need immediate respite, which is why several people often turn to drinking or other harmful activities. This gets worse when you see your peers/ friends having fun on Instagram while you are miserable at home.
Actionable advice: Join a yoga session, dance class or some cycling group. You can also try going for the weekend excursions organised by local groups (Several groups on Instagram - just search them)
The idea here is to join some group where:
1. You have a guide/ mentor actively teaching you and tracking your progress and checking up on you (unlike most seniors at law firms)
2. You have a peer group of your age with whom you can bond in a social casual setting, and talk about something apart from work (as corporate settings does not always allow us to let our guard down)
Keep these two things in mind, and I'm sure you will notice a mood shift.
All the best!
The pain is such that I have decided to become recluse.
No wonder people keep saying, 20s are lonely years. I would much rather prefer to live at my hometown with my parents and family, if only that town had any jobs :(
I really need to get a life
Please move in with your friends (even strangers and turn them into friends) or you will compromise on your health (as you cant manage food living alone) and social life, eventually burn out and leave the career altogether.
Learn from my mistakes.
LI also has readership of single people between 28-40s
I do meet my friends 2-3 times a week but still feel lonely. Maybe because I live alone, idk.
Some weekends, I just prefer working instead of being free and lonely. At least it helps me divert my mind.