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- weather (seriously)
- generally nice and helpful crowd
- people don't get aggressive, petty or catty quickly
- half-decent metro connectivity now
- great South Indian food and world cuisines (bad North Indian though, compared to North India)
- great pubs and bars
- cosmopolitan culture
But the fact that some areas of Bangalore are dominated by outsiders shows that the city is largely welcoming
Most individual experiences of outsiders with the people of Bangalore are with auto/cab drivers who are a nuisance. They don't represent the larger population which is largely fine
- the weather is great but it has gotten worse over the years. What was once an all time situation is now a monsoon - winter situation, which you would come to find is pretty common across cities
- the crowds used to be helpful, the crowds have gotten pretty polarised over the years, and I've found people to be a lot more helpful and kinder in delhi
- again the city has gotten polarised over the years. If you don't speak kannada someone's out for you, if you speak kannada but aren't from Bangalore someone is still out for you, if you speak kannada and are from Bangalore someone will still find a reason to be out for you. People and their responses really have changed, wasn't the same as it was before
- metro connectivity is still barely there. The work that started when I was in middle school is still ongoing. I've graduated college!
- world cuisines used to be good, but now feels overpriced and most of it has adapted to a bland taste that appeal to no one, but doesn't anger anyone. The food scene in delhi is better even for world cusines
- great pubs and bars if you're looking for a Sunday brunch with family vibe, but by night it gets judgemental and sad pretty fast.
- the cosmopolitan culture has been dead for a while now. Most people live in their own socio cultural silos. This is something I realised in school and from what I've heard it's only gotten worse since.
- the infrastructure is non existent. Most projects have a 15 year term of completion and do you really have a road in Bangalore if it hasn't been broken down and dug up and rebuilt a 100 times before a pothole forms in 2 days of use.
- the corruption in this city is visible from miles away. The facilities provided by the govt is so so so terrible you have no choice but to go pvt.
-If you live in blr, have a cushy job supported by an MNC, have access to great international schools for your kids, live in a private gated community, with access to private international hospitals, with private insurance and private security and private water contractors, with every single aspect of your life privatised to the extent that there is literally no reason for you to ever interact with the government or the state, your life will be amazing.
(This is party wide, and not subject to any single party, I have lived through every party that has come and gone and each and every single one of them turns out to be just as bad)
But what hurt me the mosttt was MY OWN FIRM'S KANNADIGAS telling me "You outsiders have ruined Bangalore; just go back, dude!" There was no 'true value, true values.' :')
That sucks to be honest!
Airport buses are finally becoming popular even among immigrants. I have been using buses since I was 13 years old and they're safe, cheap, and have great connectivity
With introduction of Namma BMTC app, tracking buses and planning your travel has also become very easy
And before you go "oh why don't you just learn kannada", the language doesn't have an Alliance Francaise or Goethe Institute equivalent. There aren't any formal ways to learn it even if you have the time. Your native colleagues are busy teaching you ROFR and drag along tag along, limited bandwidth to teach you the language.
Countless channels on YouTube https://docs.google.com/document/d/1oexV25G3BWEigIb0aYYTBsr3D3wQiDPZ7_2c1Un_sBM/edit?usp=sharing
https://kannadagottilla.com/
My 65 year old mother who only knows Hindi and can barely use a smartphone has bought a book that teaches you Kannada using Hindi. Two degrees and you still can't find resources to learn Kannada is surprising.
Only KSRTC buses use Kannada because they barely operate in Bangalore and are mainly used by people from other parts of Karnataka.
Nothing in Hindi, yes. That's a sore point for some people here.
Conductors are so busy that they don't give a hoot about what language you know or don't know. It's clear that you have never used buses and interacted only with auto and cab drivers who are condescending about language
The only thing conductors care about is not calling them bhaiya. Call them sir or Anna and they're sweet. It's just like Punjabis who hate being called bhaiya because they associate that with Bihar/UP.
FYI - some conductors are rude irrespective of language because their job is just frustrating. A video popped of a conductor abusing an elderly man speaking Kannada so don't blame it on language
PS: If anyone wants to know how/why I felt excluded, I'll say only this: try to imagine navigating the city, either on foot or by public transport, either on your own or in company, if (1) you were to be completely blind; and (2) you have Cynophobia (have dog/cat phobia) (hint, Bangalore has a street dog problem, whatever its other virtues, also think about street/public transport accessibility).
Almost all major global MNCs have a presence here or have their APAC corporate Headquarters in the city. Do you get to interact with global clients or colleagues as well.
Anyone in the world would love this city, unless of course, you like a city that has only North Indian cuisine or that speaks only one language- Hindi.
Unwelcoming people are everywhere, South Indians are unwelcome in the north and guess you would find it unwelcoming in the south. The way people look down at you if you mispronounce a Hindi word in the north (I would know, studied in the north) is ridiculous when they don't even bother learning South Indian languages
I agree that the South might not be 100% welcoming but each action there is merely a reaction to racist and exclusionary
Bangalore is a remarkably cosmopolitan city- we sent a Mizo to Parliament, our CM was a Rajput, many of our MPs and MLAs are Telugu, and you can manage perfectly well in the city if you only speak Tamil. Many of Bangalore's top businessmen are Punjabis and Sindhis, and there are pockets where Gujarati is the lingua franca. Rajasthan Patrika has a print edition in Bangalore, for God's sake!
Bangalore has an exceptional street food culture- what do you think Darshinis are? Only Lucknow and Kolkata have food that is this cheap and this good.
"Unwelcoming People" is a matter of perspective. I don't want to negate your experience, but I easily know 20 or 30 people personally who have said that Bangalore is an immensely welcoming city. To each their own, I suppose.
Public transportation is not... bad. Try taking buses. I do that for last mile connectivity sometimes. They are clean, not crowded, and take you from place A to B. Uber and Ola are generally functional. I agree that the infrastructure and traffic can do with lots of improvement, but it is happening.
Let's get to why we love Bangalore:
1. It's a cosmopolitan melting pot. From Bohra Muslims to Mangalorean Christians to Sikhs, all of them have come here, thrived, and made this their home. Go to Palace Orchards or Defence Colony or any other old Bangalore haunt, and you'll see the diversity of Bangalore.
2. HUGE literary scene. Bookstores, book launches, quizzes, talks. All of which are accessible to all, and very welcoming.
3. Great cultural scene. Movies in 6 languages are regularly shown. There are free or cheap concerts and shows, from Rock to Carnatic, from Raza to Kathakali. The museum scene is also good. MAP. NGMA, IME, and others. Look up Putting Scene for a list.
4. Sports. There are public spaces and avenues for you to easily play several sports, even if you don't know a soul in the city. Cricket, football, running, golf, basketball, swimming- pick a sport, and you'll be able to play it.
5. Green. I love Basavangudi. I love Cubbon Park. I love Richards Town. This is a city of trees.
6. Food. Grasshopper. KC Das. Khmer Kitchen. Thom's Cafe. Koshys Plum Cake. There are many food secrets that you can take years to discover.
7. Drink. The beer and wine stories are well known. Gin and whiskey lovers are equally well served. There are wine and whiskey clubs that you can join, and that hold regular events.
I can go on, but .. Bangalore is an emotion. You don't like it, that's fine. Some of us wouldn't want to be anywhere else.
While the globe might despise the (in)famous traffic of Bangalore, the countless hours I've spent stranded in my car with my family have illuminated our lives with lost sparks of happiness, a much-needed respite from my routine life as a bail-procuring attorney for the quick-fingered pocketmaars of Church Street. This standstill in time and space amidst traffic chaos has allowed me to reacquaint with long-lost friends from a nearly forgotten childhood and diligently reply to the ‘Good morning’ messages from Fufas and Mamas in our extended family WhatsApp group. Gone are the days of ‘talk to ya later’; I’ve evolved into a person who cherishes family values and engages in hearty digital exchanges, all thanks to the times when the clock ticks but the wheels don’t roll.
The relentless and exhaustive negotiations with our cherished auto drivers not only sparked my ardor for judicial combat within the venerable confines of the Mayo Hall Court Complex but also reshaped my character. Nowadays, I greet every ignored reminder for my fees by my clients with a serene smile and open arms.
Certainly, as a sentient being, I harbor my fair share of despair, occasionally skirting the fringes of despondency, but fear not, for there is solace in Bob’s Bar. Whether you're a young professional or a seasoned local in this metropolis of enthusiastic runners, if you can secure even a sliver of space in this sought-after refuge, you'll find the place brimming with divine libations and tantalizing spicy pork fry, proffering yet another reason to relish existence.
In its sprawling expanse, Bangalore has graciously offered me the essentials: the quintessential 'Roti', the occasional 'Kapda', and a deeply mortgaged 'Makaan'. To my cherished city, my anchor and muse—may we remain inseparable, at least until the final traffic light turns green.
B'luru is 1-step away from 10/10 on the said markers (we are building metros, yay!), however by-far the biggest barrier (hate is a strong word) which leads to most micro-issues, is a minor but persistent friction to become more liberal / creed-agnostic (general argument: so what? this also happens in Delhi/Mumbai/<insert other city in non-south> / People from x-part of the country are also same).
Apologies if I am being utopian/naive here, but these cities (esp. Hindi belt cities) should not be a benchmark of what the "best city" should be. Also not a huge fan of using 'immigrant'/'outsider' and anything that creates a us vs. them. Open to kindly worded critical thoughts? :)
If I would be bangalore meti life different hoti but meih toh tier 2 city meih hu 😅😞
Bois in BLR have built a wall thicker than Bollywood to penetrate to mainstream oneself with that society.