I sense some confrontation here, I'll try to not take it personally. As for your question, my hours are extremely varied now that I am almost entirely independent. Yes, the family network has helped me. I do not deny it. But the key to litigation (as a first-gen lawyer) is to aim to go independent as soon as you can. I see so many people who continue to be juniors to Senior Advocates, for years. This does not help your career. Rather, you should get your own cases (however small they may be, to start out). Once you're confident of your clientele, shift out. Once you're independent, your hours are yours to decide.