I have this cute crush on a girl where her looks seem to come later on in the things I like about her though she is v pretty. She appeals and seems attractive because she's extremely functional, productive and morally upright. Works ass off and doesn't care about what others around her fell of her. We both are on good talking terms but I believe if I confess my feelings for her she would say no because she is extreme career focused at this stage and so am I for that matter (though she has been an exception who has swept me off her feed).

Need suggestions from anyone but specifically from self made strong women in law how you would have reacted to someone confessing their admiration of you as a beautiful person and what would you look in their words which might remotely convince you to even consider. For context I see her as a good long term partner in crime for life and am myself a one girl person.

Do I approach her? Do I not? I don't need a yes or a no answer but just want to put it across my true feelings to her.

Also again a question to girls? Would looks be such a turn off when the other person has helped you through thick and thin and shares the same socio moral traits like you? We both introverts so that doesn't help and the fact that I am of an extremely small built doesn't help my self confidence one bit, and the 2 and a half page handwritten letter I have kept in her favourite book has been lying there for 3 months. HELP.

Personally, I've always been very impressed with guys who tell me gently that they like me with no expectation. And I don't know many who had the guts to do it. Everyone fears rejection but you're already making lots of assumptions about your potential rejection. No one owes you romantic interest no matter how much you help them or are like them. If you are able to talk about how you feel without pushing her to feel one way or the other, then you sound like an adult at least.

I don’t want to sound cynical, but my advice is to stay away from law school girls and instead date girls from other fields, such as science, humanities, economics, design etc. I know girls from such fields and they are very nice and kind people. I am dating a girl who is studying economics from a top college and she is super nice. On the other hand even if law school girls start out as simple and sweet, they end up as mean and selfish. There was such a girl in my class (in an NLU) who betrayed my friend very badly. I too was betrayed by a girl, who pretended to be interested in me but used me only to get an internship.

Bro, just tell her that you really like her without any expectation in a manner which will not spoil the bond that you two have.

If she likes you back that would be great for you, If she doesn't like you back then also it won't be any issue for you after sometime.

Also, I feel that right now you are putting her on a pedestal, get to know her better first (make sure she's a good human being).

Whatever is the outcome of your confession, I am telling you it would be a great experience.

All the best :)

Last year I met a Guy who joined as an A0 at my office. He was 6ft tall, had goofy hair, a cute smile and a heart full of gold. He ticked off all my boxes Religion, Looks, Compatibility, Chemistry, Communication, Intelligence. Needless to say I developed a crush on him within a week's time. He was the one I couldn't even dare to dream about. But universe had other plans for us.

He asked me if we could date in a month's time and I agreed.

Life seems better and brighter with him.

Point being, just confess, you never know what she has in her mind and heart for you.

Its been 15 months to us, and we are going strong each passing day!!!!