Any chance of a simple, middle-class guy who joins a big law firm meeting a millionaire girl and marrying her? A client from a rich family, who I would normally never be able to meet? Do such poor boy-rich girl romances ever happen?

I'll be honest. I'm very lazy and would like to retire as soon as possible. Hence this question. 😐

this is so true. People say personality matters more but for your personality to shine through, you need to have a good face. a lot of people say looks help you in getting into a relationship but your personality helps you in making sure you stay in that relationship , but how will you stay in one without getting into one?

What nonsense, as most of what Tate spouts / spouted: what's clear is no women ever looked at Tate until he started paying them to look at him. Didn't Madonna date one of her backup dancers? Aren't 'toy boys' a thing? Look into sex tourism for rich women from rich countries going to less rich countries for sex? If you were a rich woman, would you particularly have a specific reason for not dating an attractive young person with a good personality (besides avoiding potential 'gold digging', which rich men would presumably also avoid)? The only thing he is might mean (but doesn't say) is that there are fewer rich women than rich men, but that's what it means to live in the patriarchal society that Tate espouses and wants.

The moderator is actually agreeing with Andrew Tate, when he says that Tate buys women with money. It shows that women are interested in rich guys and not in personality. Also, have you seen many seen cases of rich girls marrying middle-class guys? I've never seen it, but seen many cases of rich guys marrying middle-class girls.

Not agreeing: Tate bought women with money because he literally paid them money to operate an internet catfishing business scamming lonely guys out of their life savings. Plus he (allegedly) also trafficked women and moved to Romania because he thought laws are less strictly enforced there. All that says nothing about women, but it does confirm that you can hire or bribe people, of whichever gender, with money (which might also be Tate's point, since he obviously believes money is the most important thing in the world).

Andrew Tate is shit. But that comment is real.

Atleast in the Indian Context,

Ever seen a Tier 1 Law Firm / Investment Banker /Consulting women dating someone below thier league? You could see a lot of these men dating far below thier leagues.

You could see men in Trilegal/SAM/Khaitan dating and even marrying women with 1/3rd of thier incomes. But it's rare to see women in these firms doing the same. The maximum step down for these women is if they date someone from a Tier 2 firm or in house lawyers.

Friends who live in UK or US also tells about how thier IB/Tech Consulting Male friends happily hang out with even pretty bartenders or even bimbo waitress. But has rarely seen female colleagues hanging out with anyone at a lower level.

What women is not sexist. Like men are biologically geared to go for looks, women have biologically evolved to go for resources.

Even the most wealthy women are not looking for wealth or money per se. But they atleast want someone above thier intellectual capacity. Which makes them reluctant to date below thier league.

Women especially in law firms and tech are very intelligent, which means they are less reluctant to go for Gym Boys or anyone making less money / have less intellectual capacity. Wealthy men on the other hand are stupid and go for looks.

Unfortunate, but this is the norm.

Correct.

Women in Business, Consulting prefer smart or intellectual intelligent men. Which in 21st Century knowledge economy means they won't be interested in a relationship with men almost always above or within thier league. When women date below thier league - they become unsatisfied and resentment grows. When men date below thier league - that's not the case, it may even be the opposite - more satisfying.

Also Toy Boys, Gigolos - It's rare to see women marrying them, maybe some old women will play around with them. But wealthy men still marry younger women just for looks and no other reason. Also age gap out of the league relationships work best for men - because it's biologically possible to start a family and fulfill other purposes.

Yes, like Murdoch. The 90 year billionaire grandpa still has a good taste in beautiful women. Hey marries pretty women just for looks and physical satisfaction. There are hundreds of thousands of Murdochs. But it's rare to see female billionaires or millionaires doing that. For them looks/physical attraction is one among many factors. But not enough to marry someone.

How many female millionaires or billionaires have you seen marrying just for looks or physical attraction. They maybe engaging gigolos or toy boys, but they won't find happiness in the long term or marry them.

Women are good at selection - they holistically look before committing for the long term - that's why they go for men above or within thier range. But men think with thier horny stupid brain even for the long term.

That's why men marry and date less intelligent people way below thiet leagues.

This leads to highly educated / paid women being left out in the dating/ marriage market. They find no/less takers. The men whom they are interested might not be even interested in them and can have different priorities. Wealthy men may not always be looking for another intelligent women to spend time with, they maybe looking for someone more fun to spend time with.

Men are inherently sexist, multiple studies have proven that men love smart women in theory, but not in real life. They want to feel more toxic masculine and 'powerful'. This applies across the spectrum.

The worst inequality of a marriage I have seen in my friends circle women is an IIM Indore Women marrying a Symbiosis Pune MBA guy who also makes as much as her

Men? A Principle Associate who made 40 LPA marrying a School teacher hardly making 3 LPA.

Yeah, that's because low income women are happy to do all the unpaid care work that makes the man flourish. Low income men on the other hand are a lot of work. Not only do they do nothing to help, they also then expect the woman to work to soothe their bruised ego because they can't handle her success. If both low and high income men have these delicate egos, women figure they may as well be with the guy who can afford to hire someone to take care of the home as opposed to the one who won't do it and can't afford to pay someone to do it.

You'll have to be comfortable with taking instructions from her since if she enters your conference room, she'll be paying you. And if she's in your conference room, she's not going to be impressed by your laziness honey ;) If her daddy is the one dealing with you then you'll never see her unless he wants you to.

Well, I just got invited to the wedding of a junior lawyer from a middle class family who is marrying the daughter of a verrry rich businessman! He will probably be quitting his job and running her dad’s business. What’s more, the girl studied abroad while the guy is a non-NLU grad. So such things can happen!