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You can make very small changes just by changing your attitude/approach to life and those around you.
The main source of your pain is because in a group of people you think, "Hey there, look who has arrived". Ditch that.
Instead think, "Look over there, how amazing you are".
Then see the magic.
I am a female, I've had some experience of it as a teen where I had insecurities about my appearance despite the fact that most people have given me positive compliments. Over time, I have realized beauty is extremely subjective, comes from years of conditioning by media and society, and not that important in the list of other things. Especially in the legal field, I think it does not play that a big role but I am guessing in you social and dating life, it might. But at the end of the day, I guess it is okay to have people who value us for us, rather than our face and body, so losing out those people should be fine right?