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I do hope LI allows this thread. While we've heard about the topic a lot. Have there been actual instances and beneficiaries of this? Anonymously of course- the posting can be made.
One was in my firm (T1) in NCR – had serious thing going with a colleague (diff teams) – so not exactly a fwb situation then. It turned sour – and boy did I realise why ppl despise work place relationships! Anyways, since then (1-2 years) we got over it and have had a good work relationship. We look out for each other, share gossip, etc. We also started having casual sex but stopped sometime back. That’s that.
2nd was with a woman I met (also a lawyer in another T1 in NCR) through a common friend. Things were (still are) super clear from the start – casual sex only. No falling for each other. We used to do it very often when it started. Now the frequency is less – but still going on. We exchange some cross firm gossip, etc. but not major work benefits out of this one.
Looking for 3rd one (no pun intended).
1. If u don’t mind can u tell which firm is this
2. Is it really frequent in all the t1 firms across delhi
3. Reaction of both when it stopped and see each other in hallways.
1. Sorry, cant disclose the firm - will make it very obvious for some people (at least 2 woman!) to figure out who I am. Also, two firms here, not sure which one you want disclosed.
2. Trust me on this, this happens in all T1s (and maybe other firms too) - just that people who do it dont discuss / disclose it. They are just too happy with their lives :) So am I btw. Also, dont get me wrong - it wont happen as a matter of rule. You will have to put some (very little compared to the slogging we do everyday) effort into it. But once you do - you will be surprised at the number of people who have the same mind set and are more than ready to jump at an fwb opportunity, even if the only benefit is sex. I was the last person who would have put effort into looking good or having a good physique. Have been guys' guy through and through in college and after. But then very few things inspire me so strongly as does sex. So I just got better :)
3. Like I explained - with the first one it was awkward in the beginning. But its super cool now. We get coffee and lunches together at times. Both of us matured over time. With the second one (like I explained) - we dont work in the same firm, but it has been super cool from day one. No expectations other than good sex. It stopped with the first one cordially - we still hang out, its still going on with the second one. I meet and greet both the woman in office setting and outside like normal people (no - these two women dont know anything about each other) and no one suspects a thing (not that its anyone's business what we are doing outside of work). Full disclosure before anyone asks - havent done a threesome, ever.