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Figure out what you do like. Then go do it. Who is holding you back?
You can try to pivot with the civil services or an MBA, but whatever you choose, do build your mental fortitude. Survival of the fittest applies.
I'm a litigator, so will obviously recommend the Bar as a worthwhile endeavour which will eventually make you the master of your destiny. Its not so much the years it takes to get there, but the years, decades (and possibly generations) of reward that make it worth the wait.
I'd say give it some time, intern at boutique firms, try different areas of law (like IPR, ADR, Competition Law, Environmental Law etc. etc... yk the list is endless). Also, work at different roles- maybe you'd end up liking research or academia more than core practice? You'll never know until you try.
To make you feel a little better, I come from a non-NLU, above average private law school. Graduated this year. Had 4 offers and 2 confirmed assessment internships. Joined a boutique firm just a week after my final exams. Thought that was it, that I had my career sorted, I'd grow exponentially in the coming years. But life had other plans and I had to quit in barely 5 months. I realized practicing law wasn't a sustainable option for me. Thankfully, I had tried my hand at academic research and writing in law school and I know my love for research. So I decided not to concentrate on what I couldn't do anymore, but on what I can do and like doing. There's always a second chance, and thereafter a third chance, and a fourth one as well. You can choose to give yourself as many chances as you like before you finally stumble upon what you truly love doing. It's okay to not like what the majority is after.
Switching careers is the most extreme option possible, you should be damn sure that you could never work this out. I hope you find your peace with law, best of luck!