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Stop attacking all of us under the garb of nepotism.
that is not to say that your talent is any less than someone who is a first gen lawyer
Because - Judiciary is not a joke. It's not your family property.
Senior Advocate Designations and HC/SC Appointments are overwhelmingly given to those who's Daddy/Mommy is an Influencial Lawyer, Senior Advocate or Judge.
Don't tell that you are naturally talented and you were born with an SC Digest in your hand in the neonatal ward.
Nepotism in Judiciary is unforgivable. It's 100 times worse than nepotism in Bollywood or a political party.
Because - here, nepotism is 1000% with literally no accountability. You don't suffer like Businesses/Political Parties who collapsed because of nepotism.
Now coming to lower Judiciary,
You guys (nepo kids) always want more time from the judge than a fresher advocate. Force favorable Verdicts. Even local bar associations - you strangle it with your family network making it tough for a non nepo lawyer.
It's the way things are. Come to terms with that fact, and that's the only way to avoid having a mental breakdown.
- Fellow First Gen.
If even now, after all the changes our country has gone through since 1991, all first generation lawyers remain scared of the nepotistic cabal of second+third generation lawyers (like the Sibbals, Chandarchuds of the world) to such an extent that we are not even willing to acknowledge such cabals politics and overreach in the judiciary, how is this right at all?
And please also think whether such silence will strengthen the legal world of India or weaken it!
he is known as one of the lions in entire legal fraternity.
ram jhetmalanis son is not at all famous as his father.
its nothing about first or second generation
its all about HUNGER
Debatable.
Anyways, coming to Jethmalani comment.
Mr. Mahesh Jethmalani became a (1) Designated Senior Advocate (2) a Rajya Sabha MP.
Only because of his natural talent???
His mother hears him read Locke and Tolstoy while she was pregnant.
What a joke man?
There are lakhs of advocates in Bombay. Tens of thousands of really talented ones. How on earth did Jethmalani get Senior Advocate Designation?
Only a few hundred Senior Advocates exist in Bombay. Why are most of them coming from elite families?
There are many more deserving candidates.
Senior Designation is a big deal. If you didn't know.
Even we Judicial Officers have to silently hear these rascal nepos because of thier immense political and Judicial power.
In fact, the families are very well connected. I can't disclose much but I have been witness to a SC judge singing happy birthday to a 4th year old grad at GLC mumbai. Everybody in GLC knows how well connected some families are.
I am not that ugly dear lady/gentleman.
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But itβs the second/third gen lawyers who starve us by force and make us fall in line for their own benefit! Should any first gen lawyer raise his voice against the open nepotism, such first gen is forced to leave the legal market.
Now please elaborate what happens if you starve a human - he dies!
All second/third gen lawyers are guilty of murder. Murder of the professional careers of 1000s (if not lacs) of first gen lawyers who were forced to walk away or stay down!
And before you start comparing the Narimans to any normal family do realise the economic cost one must bare to succeed in the legal profession!! Not all families from Bharat are as well of as all families from India (Tier 1/2 cities of India).
Viswanathan and Gopal Sankaranarayanan had KKV.
None of these (except maybe Rohinton) fit the "nepo" definition. But yes, if you are fortunate to get a great mentor, you can definitely make a niche for yourself. Stop listening to negative voices who use this "nepo" tag to discourage you.
Not saying he has not got brains. Well, we all have and can work hard. Cases toh laao. BCI ne ban kar rakha hai solicitation of work. We sell professional services, not banana which is in high demand .
One of my superseniors is a first gen like me. During 2nd wave we got connected due as me and my friends were arranging meds , oxygen and bedding for everyone. He has now 5+ years of experience in HC. I was in District Courts under a senior.
I asked him how he is fairing, & what can I do to jump to HC and make a living. He broke down. He had dreams like everyone else to argue case on merit , get recognition and make a living from law. Early on, he got married to a girl whose father is retd. DGP. So, he was paying rent of a upper middle class flat and an office. It was hard for him to pay for them . Then covid came and situation worsened. He told me that when he would visit district court he would sit with some seniors at evening to enjoy tea (including my senior). He would do so to gain some insight into law and wisdom.
Later on, he would come to know that one of those seniors was found saying "kaam ki Bheekh Maangne aate hain chamber me" (people visit chamber to beg for work). That day he stopped idolizing people and realized that we all are flawed. Thanks to him to give me correct perspective otherwise I would have been running around chasing seniors too. Better to sell Tea and earn respectable βΉ400 daily than to get humiliated in name of origin, clan , family.
Social Justice , Equality of status and opportunity and non-discrimination are just cute phrases in constitution.
Here's the truth : - in Most developed countries , blue collar workers are earning more or equal to CEOs!
That's just economic equality equalization. India maybe on that path (I am no economist. I will let economists add their perspective). The 'Education Dream' is bursting from middle class families. Let me add more info.
1. So, my first cousin is an IIT-B Grad. He graduated sometime during 2005-2007 I guess. He is in top positions in Credit Suisse (Londoner). His salary is through the roof ! (But so are the expenses). His wife is an IITian too. Similar Salary. Couple recently had a child. The Baby Sitter's retainer was half the salary of the wife. Can't disclose his name as he is well known in IIT Circles and his name pops up in google search suggestions.
2. If you watch Vlogs in youtube of Indians in Canada , USA , New Zealand then you will know that people are providing services as Cab Drivers and working 2 jobs and earning almost same as some CEOs.
3. Back in 2010-2011 when Radio Mirchi and feature fone FM was popular, I use to listen to it . I was using Samsung corby. So, in a radio live the RJ told how his friend who is working in Corporate MNC in Gurgoan told te RJ about 'Sutta / Corn' joint near his office who is making good money. It was in 2010 !
So , yeah .
1. Govt exams
2. Litigate
We know about #1. Now often we even dont find a good senior advocate to join. It is based on contacts and recommendation as far as i know. We spend 5 years learning ideals of law only to face the harsh reality that
"oh, you are not rich, so no place for you. Your dad is not a big shot who will he call?"
Now you will play the "merit card". I will et Avani ji Bansal reply to your merit card as she is much more educated than me . She is the right person to reply as she is a scholar herself (All gold medals in HNLU, Oxford , Harvard)
https://youtu.be/xZLqlMWBLr0
Mind you, She is less into litigation and now trying hands on coaching as best of my knowledge. She has joined congress too .
For a first generation lawyer, there is so much of uncertainty. I pity those who depend on parents even to get a vehicle to travel to the court in the first five years. Success is not guaranteed even after five years, because by then you just find your feet and get to know your domain. Thereafter, the actual labour begins.
All the best all the first gen lawyers who intend to litigate.
Quote: Very true Quote: How do you know about my life so much? Where are those CCTVs?!
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Just think over it, what do we lawyers do? Is it anything intellectual or only talented people can do? Even class XII passed court clerks do better than us. In legal profession, a law degree has no relevance. It is like intermediary work, like a broker, nothing more than that.
you cant do anything in the law profession without a law degree.
Also, no litigators are not brokers, they are absolutely power deals as only they make or break criminal/ civil cases.
The divide in generational 'insiders' and non-generational 'outsiders' begins at colleges. It persists at the time of getting your enrollment form signed. First gens have no place at the table in the Bar rooms, despite being paying members. Insider law students trotting as "interns" are given a royal cushion for their @$$.
Insiders start filing their VPs in daddy's/ mommy's matters, argue those, while we are stuck searching for even half as decent seniors who hopefully treat us at least like human-slaves and not like scum. We are trapped seeking adjournments and getting matters kept back with ni end in sight.
Insiders, spare us your sob stories, we have enough on our plates already.
All professions have this - when kids of school teachers get admission easily, no one has an issue. How come this hypocrisy?
In all likelihood, you would help your child too and not throw them to endlessly struggle when you have made something of yourself after years of struggle already.
Just a few weeks ago, some comments regarding 'having litigation in their blood', some other poster claiming to be a third-gen and unabashedly boasting how they hate non-nepos were published on this very site
Just look at the non-published comments on this thread