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1. Neat
2. On the rocks
3. With a twist of lime
My top 3 in handling alcohol on campus.
@OP - humein toe aadhi baar maang ke bhi nasib nahin hoti thi, yeh dhakke se pilaane waale kahan the?
So unless you end up feeling a sudden bout of peer pressure, drink it on your own accord and then plan to blame it on others "forcing it" upon you, you would be cool.
There is a large demographic in every law school that doesn't indulge in such substances. This is true for both NLUs and Non-NLUs.
No matter where you go, you'd find your tribe for this one.
Most of these intoxicating substances are just a coping mechanism anyways because its easier to just have a dram of scotch or smoke a cigarette to alleviate stress instantly than to maintain actually productive hobbies.
If you can manage your need for instant gratification as well steer clear with what you call as hobbies, you would be good to go ( In college and after that).
The culture of drinking is worse in Magic Circle firms, or so I've heard.
And I have to say, a glass of scotch never hurt anyone.
Cut to present.. Iβve graduated college, and although lot of batchmates did start smoking and drinking, Iβve never engaged in those activities. For me, it was a personal choice and while I respect othersβ right to drink or smoke, thatβs not something that really appealed to me.
There are really a lot of factors as to why people suddenly start drinking - maybe itβs the work pressure, or to get over a bad breakup. For some, itβs the first time they are getting freedom in college, away from their prying eyes of their parents. Thereβs definitely a bit of peer pressure, but as @Guest said, no friendship is worth it if it only hinges on you drinking with them.
Yes, people might egg you on to drink, but I donβt think even during ragging any senior will physically force alcohol down your mouth. If some senior does ask, just politely refuse.
Cheers. Also no one forces really but peer pressure is real, donβt get into it.
While I do not entirely agree with that argument, I just wanted to understand how one is supposed to deal with these things on campus? I have stayed away from it, not because of any family pressure, but because I myself didn't feel like trying it out. Please let me know your thoughts on the same! [also, how does one NOT get addicted to this stuff]
TL;DR
Should I try out drinking to interact with seniors?