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Should “Ma’am” be used, or is it sexist as it assumes gender? Should we just say the first name, no matter how old the person may be?
Should “Ms Singh” or “Ms Kumar” be said, or is that problematic, because the word is pronounced “Miss” and it also assumes gender? Again, should first names be the rule?
Than handshake, or is that patriarchal? What about a non-touch greeting like namaste, or does that have religion and caste implications? What about hand on heart? Is that the best and safest? And what about a kiss on the cheek? On both cheeks or one?