Ugh. Stop it. The point of words is communication. It is not to establish yourself as morally superior. I’ll use gay or LGBT. Because those are people whose rights I see actually being affected. They’re a community that is fighting for material thing. There are no Native American two spirits here. Indian trans people are happy to adopt any homegrown labels such as Hijra , kothi etc. but we don’t need to twist ourselves into knots trying to acknowledge every word every person has ever chosen to describe themselves. Just be a person who wants equal rights. That’s enough.