You dont want to interact or bond with "randos" from work. Fine.
But when the "Randos" dont talk to you or interact with you because youve been an aloof prick then dont go around branding the place as TOXIC because its people like YOU who create toxicity- their own brand of it by not being team players!
Actually it is the other way round. If it's an office thing, it's automatically forced on everyone in the office. Unlike a party, that I may choose not to attend, in a secret Santa situation I am forced to participate as my secret Santa will buy a gift for me. I don't want to socialize with office peeps
Frankly, I wouldn't even want to be friends with such people. Thoda effort daal lo? An office is not by itself a pleasant place. It is made pleasant by pleasant people. You spend a better part of your day there. Try being nice for once?
I have been in a law firm, in-house, brother is a government lawyer, friends in private litigation, college senior is a civil judge. Sabka har jagah Kat raha hai. Kuch naya nai hai. Stop whining.
Let's stop promotion of western religious festivals in India. Santa Claus is a western myth. Christianity is an international religion. Let's celebrate indian festivals and mythology.
obviously they don't. It's just something we've got to do, in the endless list of things which law firm people have to do, having no remote connection to law.
Seriously....get over that word and stop using it to cover your own incompetence.
But when the "Randos" dont talk to you or interact with you because youve been an aloof prick then dont go around branding the place as TOXIC because its people like YOU who create toxicity- their own brand of it by not being team players!
-A Rando!
Frankly, I wouldn't even want to be friends with such people. Thoda effort daal lo? An office is not by itself a pleasant place. It is made pleasant by pleasant people. You spend a better part of your day there. Try being nice for once?